I was at a church gathering at a local park to have fun for the kids today. As I was leaving I was shaking everyone's hand, but when I got to this girl I extended my hand and she said bye, I held my hand for another second and she said bye again with kinda angry eyes. I shaked her hand before but this time I was surprise and embarrassed in front of others as she left my hand hanging. I never disrespected her at all to be treated this way.😏
Probably doesn't like the texture of your hand. But rather than admit to something that petty, she'd rather act standard rude. Is it possible someone is spreading rumors about you? Some women will readily surrender all scrutiny of their own, to blindly obey rumors. I'd see if she knows anyone else that has some beef with you, for whatever reason they may think is reason to have it.
I often have had to face a world where, because I don't think like the rest of the group does, they won't truly accept me, ever. Then, they decide that if I can't think like them, I don't deserve any of the benefits in life that they'd never deny themselves.
So when I wanted a girlfriend, and found a good candidate, they made haste to poison the well. To convince her I was some sort of dangerous deviant. They tried to make her hate me. Always behind closed doors, when I wasn't around. Always where I couldn't speak in my own defense.
And those girls proved themselves unworthy, by how little effort it took to get them to betray me. That weak-minded, that eager to always follow the crowd, no matter what.
I've met many who were weak in mind and soul. Of those ladies, I'd probably only give two of them a second chance, if that were possible. A third one for sure is now married with children, and I suspect the second one is as well. The first one is very NPC though, and has no relationship stability with any man she's been with.
The rest? Screw em. They're no better than animal abusers in my eyes.
While a man refusing to extend his hand to another man is an insult (or it was before COVID) the unwritten rule for shaking hands with women is that a man never extends his hand until the woman has. This applies in social and business situations, even if the two of you have shaken hands before.
I have only shaked two hands since covid and both times was last week... once with my boss (who seemed shocked by the offer no doubt because of covid) and the 2nd was with my husbands surgeon who successfully stopped my husbands enternal bleeding... Both times just seemed right... But Think about it over two years of no hand shaking... she could have been weirded out about how many hands you were shaking before her 🤷
Oh. Then I don't know. Did you pick your nose or scratch your balls or something? Eat with your hands? Anything that could make a germaphobe hesitant to touch you before you wash your hands?
You know I thought about it why and I have to confess in May of 2021 I went to hug all the women and she was standing with two of them, and at that time I was kidna upset with her and ignore and didn't hug her in the presence of the people looking but that was almost a year ago so maybe she held that grudge against me for that long and would only shake my hand in church because it's church and she must act a certain way in there. It's my best guest. 🤷♂️
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