How would I be perceived as?

[Anonymous]

So I finally got a great job, and good pay. But my mom and sister still need help financially. I’m looking to buy my own house soon, but they’ll be living with me. I really wanted my own place for once. But they mean the world to me. It’s just that I’m gonna start dating again, and I don’t want to be looked at as some grown man who still lives with his mom. And I wouldn’t want to invite any girl over to my place then. I wish I could help them get their own place, but my mom is too old to be working again, and my sister has depression and lack of self esteem. I just wanted to start my own life, but I can’t. Would that affect my dating life?

[Anonymous]

there's a few things. Find a nice girl who isn't a shallow twat. And 2. Get your sister the help she needs like therapy and talk to her. Let her know you're always there for her and she is beautiful.

[Asker]

I want to find a girl who isn’t shallow, but I understand why they wouldn’t want a guy like me. And I’ve been trying to help her for years, but she gives up on my life so easy. Like at one moment, she has a job and is going to school, the next moment, she just quit and is in her bed all day.

[Opinion Owner]

O damn I'm sorry to hear that.
I think you will be okay. Date around. Still get ur sis some therapy. Tell her she's gotta go to it and get help

[Asker]

What sucks too is that I’m the little brother, but I’m still struggling with my own life. I have to act like her supporter because I want her to be happy

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Is there other family you have to tall to to find out how to help her and or your mom?

[Asker]

No one knows except my sister herself. She has yet to improve despite therapy.

[WhitneySnow]

Girls will think you’re a great guy for taking care of them

[rachel776]

yess the story alone with get you laid