I need a little help Girls?

[Karz23]

So me & this girl are just friends but we have had intercourses a few times, she calls me pretty much every night and she says I treat her more like a princess then any other boy ever has but I just can’t tell if she’s using me or is she actually into me and she’s just scared to tell me. I’m really into this girl and I’ve told her before that I like her more than just a friend but then she kinda denied me and that kinda put me off talking about my feelings to her. I just don’t know what to do please help :(

[SueShe]

If you really want to be sure whether your feelings are reciprocated, there is not much more than talking to her about her feelings for you.

The problem is always to involve feelings with people you just fornicate and copulate with. This is never working out.

Just ask her if she has any feelings for you and if not, tell her that you will not continue to see her because you do have feelings for her and it is hurting you too much to be with her knowing that the feelings are not reciprocated.

Either she will confess or she will deny. My gut feeling is that she will confess because she indirectly gave you a hint when she stated that you treat her better than the other guys.

[Karz23]

Okay thank you so much :)

[Karz23]

She just implies that we are just friends and I don't wanna lose it if I tell her my feelings

[SueShe]

Well, you have to make a choice.

Either you keep her as a friend and say nothing or risk everything and lose her as a friend. The third option would be the winning one. Tell her and she reciprocates.

Are you willing to take the risk to lose everything? The choice is yours.

[PrettyPriya]

You need to stop with the intimacy and start with the real relationship type of things. That will tell you real quick whether she is using you for sex or has a genuine interest.

Now, the fact that she talks to you a lot, messages and has compliments is a good sign. However, that could be to keep you interested.

Why not suggest slowing things on the intimate front and start doing some girlfriend/boyfriend type things? Go on some dates where it doesn’t end in sex. If she loses interest in that, you have your answer.

[SueShe]

Sorry for the hearty eyes. I just wanted to scroll down and my mouse clicked on the emoji. Nevertheless, this replaces the traditional pancake, I mean pretzel. Have a great week-end :-)

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe No worries! Just trying to keep cool today. I hope you have a nice week-end as well! 🙂