Question to the Girls?

[Emil04]

Iam into a girl i know, but she once sayed to me, that iam her best friend, how can i get out of the friendzone? I dont know how to tell her iam into her, how could i do it? Do you have any ideal what to do?

[SueShe]

You don't get out a friendzone if the target person is your best friend.

Are you willing to jeopardize your friendship solely so that you can get into her pants? Is friendship worth so little to you that you would rather ruin it rather than to appreciate it?

Just keep your friendship pristine and don't try to involve feelings. It is a recipe for disaster. If you confess your feeling, you will lose this friendship but you will not gain anything else in return. Is it really worth it?

She sees you as a genuine friend and you want to ruin this friendship because you cannot control your emotions.

I recommend you distance yourself from her for a while rather than to confess something that you may regret in the future.

[Emil04]

Okay thank you a lot! But i forgot to write, that she somethimes give me some signts i think, like she Look me in my eyes and smiles at my, or she loocks after me when iam leaving you know? So i just dont know how to Deal with 😖

[SueShe]

Well, if she gives you obvious signs, then you should just tell her how you feel but bear in mind that once you have done it, you risk to lose your friendship forever.

Also, once you fornicated with her, your friendship will never be the same again. Never!

[PrettyPriya]

If she thinks of you as a best friend, you are likely not going to date. I look at my best guy friend almost as a brother. He has always been there to support me, listen to me and do what best friends do.

He has never made a pass at me or even given an indication that he likes me in a romantic way. That is why he is my best guy friend. I know that I can trust him and not have to worry about ulterior motives.

If that trust were to be broken, I wouldn't be friends with him. In fact, I wouldn't even talk to him anymore because I will start to think he was playing games with me from the start. Best you leave this girl as a friend. You risk losing that completely the second you try to date.

That is a lot to lose considering she looks at you with such trust as to call you "best friend". No need losing someone like that forever just because you have some thoughts of intimacy or whatever.

[rachel776]

tell her you want her and be confident about it

[Anonymous]

You can't or it is very unlikely.