Girls, What is your ideal scenario when there is a public run-in with a hot girl you slept with?

[Anonymous]

Lads, what is your ideal scenario if you were at a cigar / hotel lounge, sitting there after work and you hear the voice of this super hot girl you slept with twice during her last trip to your city thanking the host for seating her.

How do you want this to go?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Oh fuck, well, I'd be immediately hoping she remembers me and recognizes me. And simultaneously freaking out internally.

I'd have to try to get some composure before I look over.

If she's unaccompanied, I'd approach and see if she'd be willing to share a drink with me and see where the night goes.

But if she's busy, I'll wait for her to be done. Text her if I have her info.

[Asker]

Assume that you are in a conservative Middle Eastern culture country, where the woman is a foreigner and you are the local.

Assume that you had a convo with her via text after her trip where you upset her and blocked her.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Ooooh, shit, I'd leave her be, then. One, I don't know if it's safe to be openly sapphic there. Safety is paramount (and gay rights matter).

If she's upset with me and blocked, me, it's clear she doesn't want to interact further.

I'll respect her wishes. And try to figure out what I did wrong so I can fix it if it's something that can be fixed.

[Asker]

Thank you for your input.

If you were the one who blocked because she won't stop asking you to apologize for something and you got annoyed?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

That wouldn't happen for me, probably.

What was the thing I did to make her keep asking for an apology?

[Asker]

Something you said perhaps, she states that it hurts her. Yet you persist and say that you said "I will not apologize" to which she says to delete her or apologize so you'd delete and she keeps saying something so you block her. Would you unblock? Under what circumstances?