I probably like a little… but if she’s constantly digging at me, or she’d be doing that in front of any kids she and I might have if we were married, it might be an issue. Having kids you have a little different perspective. Otherwise, I’d most likely find it attractive.
I’m sarcastic, but I try not to be too mean. I trash talk. I’m probably a little too “familiar” with people once I like them, and I will joke (if I think they can handle it). I try to have a sense of humor about myself, too.
At the same time… there’s a level of respect that I would have with a girlfriend or wife that I may not do with others, and would expect from them. Same with family or certain close friends. If it’s time to stop because it’s hurting you, even if I think it’s ridiculous, I won’t keep going there. If I assume it will hurt you, even if it’s a super funny line, I don’t need to say it.
If she’s not hurting people or trying to retaliate all the time, and she knows when to not do it… if there’s a level of respect that she doesn’t cross, then I probably would think it’s endearing if she’s a little sarcastic.
No.
But if there is charm and grace in the character then it's something most will put up with.
As my old old mate Brabo used to say "Bitch you ain't pretty, clever, or fuckable enough to be running a mouth like that!"
😭lol
Some do, some don't 🤷🏾♀️
The guys that have called me "sassy" have liked me. One guy actually really liked me "fussing" at him. Had the biggest crush on me.
Depends on the guy.
Sassiness is appealing, but too much of it can exhaust him; no guy wants 24/7 sass thrown at him over every little thing.
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At some point in the not-so-distant past, some sassy young woman drew the attention of many adoring fans. Then, other girls followed suit. And suddenly it became cute to be a sarcastic bitch. Perhaps it is even praised by other women, as it demonstrates defiance to the patriarchy. That's why, when I'm interested in a lady, I immediately begin a training regimen to un-sass them. Because the way I look at it, it's not really their fault that they are a victim of liberal politics, and there's certainly some good qualities there. I mean sarcasm takes a certain degree of intelligence. We just have to work on finding the "real you," the starry-eyed servant of my ego.
"Servant of my ego." 🤣🤣💕
Wow, what a great question!
I've been dealing with hemorrhoids for the last couple days and they're really starting to annoy me
It's like "when will these pea sized polyps on my butthole go away?" Or will they ever go away?
It's a very concerning medical phenomenon
I like everyone’s comment on any of the questions I ask?
Your name must be Narcissist.
You spelled sassy wrong, it's Intolerant.
I think you confused smart ass with borderline disabled. Also, I'm sure you think you are funny too. Having a loud pitch naggy voice. That Doesn't mean you're sarcastic. Screaming louder to win the argument is your move.
Signs of parental absence therapy.
Ok thanks 😂
“Sassy” is female privilege. That’s the word women use to describe themselves being assholes. They literally only get away with it because they have vaginas.
Doubt it? Reverse the roles. Could ANY man get what they want by saying and doing whatever a “sassy” woman would say and do? Hell no! If he didn’t end up in prison, he’d be “canceled” via social media and may as well kill himself because he’d never work again, let alone find a loving and faithful partner. Ell oh ell!
Not particularly, really. I don't know any guys you really honestly like that. We'll put up with it if she's sufficiently hot though. I think that's where girls get this distorted idea that guys like "sassy" girls or even "bitchy" girls. We don't. We like NEITHER of those. We like HOT girls. And we like hot girls so much that even when they're sassy or even bitchy, we'll still purse them to the ends of the earth. For some reason then girls see this and are like "oooooooh! Guys like her because she's SASSY! Imma be a SASSY bitch too! Look at MEEEEEEEE! I'm SASSY!"
Never ceases to amuse.
Bro I hate to be the one to tell you this but a women saying what she likes and having a personality (that is perceived to be sassy) is probably not for you, also if you treat girls differently based on appearance then you're just an ass hole. Hope this helps you become a better person Lol
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It depends. If you're the casual and playful kind, or the bitchy and abusive one.
Personally, it's whatever for me. I can be friends with sassy women and we might hit it off, but I wouldn't date them. Also if you're a bitch, then you can hit the high road too because I don't need to deal with that bs.
I don't mind trading mental barbs with a woman I'm with if it's all in good fun. I usually get back in other ways too that I won't detail here lol ;P but brats are part and parcel with that. I love the "you laugh you lose" challenges where couples will say over the top things to each other or similar to what Tim Robbins did with his wife in the beginning of Nothing To Lose (do yourself a favor and watch this movie).
Sassy is too annoying, is to full esteem, thinks is above "everyone/anyone, all these as you'r own words write "can get you in trouble". So i think you need to start cutting down that "sassy attitude"... and get more involved with the "real thing". I know is scarry to "leave your guard down", but better to be "safe than sorry"... 😉
Guys the image is just a joke Also I’m not a complete bitch 😭 I’m nice just sassy. I know when it’s time to stop though. We understand that, but i guess all these answers are pointed at YOUR QUESTION, not directly to YOU as a PERSON! 😉🤗
You're always going to catch feelings because that's who you are you feel something that you want it you're controlling and you want it in the long run you will lose though you're always going to catch feelings because you feel energy of other people and you need that attention you need to feel that energy that's what makes you alive and happy but you're just going about it the wrong way
While I agree men can be turned on by things we don't like, I wouldn't want to be around you when not horny. Sassyness isn't a turn on specifically for me, but there are definitely distasteful qualities and situations that can be very stimulating.
No; sorry. You should never antagonize your partner, no matter what gender you are.
If you like making jokes, then team up with the guy and pick a target together. Like, when you're watching a talent show on TV. (Just don't post things online. Keep your comments between yourselves.)
I like to spank the sass right out of them. Not so sassy when they butt too sore to sit down
What the hell, mate thats bloddy abusive
*bloody
There can be times when sarcasm is intelligent or even funny, but for me personally as a norm it's just discourteous and arrogant, and unattractive.
Lol depends do you act masculine when you sassy like you pressin a line? Or u just like femine sassy?
Just super sarcastic and childish. Like talking back and what are you gonna do about it type 😂 I know that sounds so bad
One day someone is gonna do something about it.
The only time I'd accept it is if you were also being flirty and fun. And like able to be brave enough to make it clear its all joking.
Sassy can be attractive if not overdone. But I don't particularly care for that image that you used.
Lol it was just a joke
There's a difference between a fuckable attitude and a bitch. Is it playful or serious?
Playful lol
Everything in moderation. You can always be too sassy, but if a person is sassy themselves, then someone who can dish it back can feel interesting.
Some men like the challenge but I think most men like demure obedient women so they have power over something and can compensate for their other inadequacies in life. I think weak men are intimidated by strong, independent minded women.
Everything you said here is stupid.
Strong and independent women don’t go anon by the way.
@Exterminatore maybe we do when we know that men on here will aggressively harass us if we don't agree with them.
Strong and independent women know where the block button is and aren’t afraid to use it.
@Exterminatore or I can just stay anon so you can't create a second account and carry on.
I suppose but hiding does not imply strength. When the going gets tough the tough hide?
Also, do you think you can make inflammatory statements such as the ones you made and not anger anyone? What you said was clearly an underhanded shot at men.
Men do not like demure and obedient women so they can have power over them, not most men anyway. They like non contentious women. They don’t want to fight with the boss, the coworkers, traffic and then come home and play childish games with the wife. Men only have so much energy. Energy wasted on that leaves less energy to handle other things. Time wasted on it leaves less time for other things.
Has nothing to do with inadequacies. Has nothing to do with compensating. Do you really think men or people are that powerless? That they have no control over their lives or directions of them at all? That they have no power over themselves?
Weak men are intimidated by everything, not just women.
Show me a strong and independent woman. I have yet to see one. Even you demonstrate a lack of strength in your very words. Do you seriously think someone is going to constantly make a new account just to screw with you?
So you talk the “I’m a strong and independent girl” talk, but you don’t walk that walk again, as evidenced by your words.
I love sarcasm. It's funny and takes an above average intelligence.
I do, it keeps things more interesting.
Never a dull moment.
And the sex can tend to be more intense.
I don’t mind a little bit of teasing but I don’t wanna complete smart ass woman that every time she talks to me she’s saying something sassy about me my age or anything
Yes, I absolutely LOVE that. Kinda spices things up and makes it more fun.
I ain't interested in sassy women, I just rather have a woman who can at least be honest and kind to me.
If you mean to where she’s just rude for no reason then it sounds like a waste of time. If you mean she doesn’t take anyones crap then that’s fine
i love when girls are sassy but the difference between being sassy and bitchy is sassy is more of a playful banter which some girls don’t understand the difference.
I don’t know about other men but my husband says he loves when I get sassy.
No. Sassy girls get friendzoned with me really quickly.
Sarcastic can still be fun as long as disrespect doesn’t creep in
No. Making snappy comebacks is one thing, but someone who is constantly at odds with you gets tiresome.
That's because women have such little accountability. Men with smart mouths often get their asses kicked.
I honestly do I find it kinda sexy and seductive. I kinda like the bossy, confident, don't give what other people think personality.
Only if they can backup their mouths with their actions.
But then some are just not worth the effort!
I would be cautious, distant, watchfull, would you live that?
As long as they aren't confusing sassy with bitchy.
I don't mind it as long as it is the kind of sassy that is entertaining and not the smug kind of sassy.
I never understood the true meaning of "sassy".
All the time, no but it can be fun and playful in many instances.
Most guys might like bedding sassy women, but for a long relationship most would take a pass.
No,
A little sass is alright.
Out of control sass makes a person just a Sass without S.
Yes I like sassy women but not insincere attention whores haha
I personally don’t, it’s cool when it’s exciting and sexy but 90% of the time it’s a headache
I had a feeling that picture was not you. Guys don't like being constantly attacked even if you are being ''sarcastic''.
What is your Art skill... sassy determinant
Yes thank you
Art is just like something I do for fun
I’m the same way mostly. Sarcastic with a dry/dark sense of humor.
I’d be all right with that kind of girl.
They're kinda hot so way to go girl have fun
Somewhat... spicey and a bit smart ass works. Just not continuously..
a lot of women like to say they're sassy. In reality they're just b****es. 🤣
Depends on the guy. Usually guys who are low-key get turned off by it
Time and place.
m I like it and I can take it...
Can be funny if you aren’t insulting others.
No, men hate sassy women.
You need therapy.
Yeah I’m already in some
As long as it's not directed towards me😂
Noooope, not the type you are describing.
Yeah. I can deal with sassy girls.
Haha yeah to much is to much ya know.
Depends, time and moment for everything.
Some guys definitely do
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