Girls, what does it feel like when you have a "crush"? What is the experience like?

[rj142]

What would your estimate be for what percentage of your "crushes" have been on men vs. women?

[EmyyWolf]

For me, since I tend to get attached.

I guess it first begins with attraction. So basically there’s something about him that is unique or different to most men you’ve met, most men you know. At first you can’t pin-point what is so intriguing about that person.

Later you start to realize that you’re actually becoming attracted. You notice that he is masculine. He has a deep voice. He has large veiny hands. You feel a masculine energy coming from him that you’ve never felt before from any guy. He stares you in the eye without a second thought.

As the days pass on you question what is so attractive about him that is driving you crazy. Day after day. Why, Why, Why. You realized then that you’re insanely sexually attracted to him. He was your manager. And the only words he’s said to you were orders. But you can’t understand why your so attracted and so interested in this person. You know nothing about him. Other than he’s young, he’s your age. And clearly he’s hot.

A couple weeks go by and you begin to wonder if you’re the only woman who feels that way about this hot stranger. You start to wonder the hundreds of thousands of women that might want this guy just as much as you do. And the idea of you having competition. Puts this SUPERMAN on a pedestal and you become EVEN MORE ATTRACTED. The level of attraction is now 150% , in your eyes he has become a 20/10.

No man can beat this man. No man is like him. No man makes me feel so overwhelmed. To the point that I’m no completely obsessed and addicted.

Im gonna need to find his social media. I need to know if he’s single. I neeed to know who his exes where. I need to know who’s my competition. I need to know if he’s has babies. I need to know his exact age. ETC

🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ But that’s just me. I don’t know how most women operate.

I became so obsessed with that guy is even wrote short stories about it

( https://www.deviantart.com/emyywolf/art/Fat-TinkerBell-Part-1-888496016 )

In my story it turns out that SUPERMAN was a baby daddy, that he cheated on his baby mom. That he’s a serial cheater. And that he had multiple girlfriends around my job. Thereby turning me into NOTHING. I didn’t do anything with him. But a girl that came to work after me.. he did end up dealing with him. Messing with him. 😒

[EmyyWolf]

The new girl needed up f—ing him just like the rest of them 😒.

I guess most women tend to subconsciously go crazy for men that present a level of danger. Not danger to the girl. But a masculine strong man that has a bit of anger and rage. Enough to prove that he could beat someone up. Or attack if need-be. It’s a woman’s natural instinct to seek a strong protective mate.
And the guy I’m talking about not only was Strong and Buff, but he looked like he’s been to the hood. He looked like he’s been in fights and knows how to fight. I can’t explain very well but the Alpha Male thing is real. This guy was also very attractive in his face. He just looked like Danny from Grease. + Vin Diesel


And also he had the deepest voice I’ve ever heard on a young guy.