Guys, is it disarming when a girl is afraid of you?

[Bethany22]

As in, maybe a girl you've just started dating and she is afraid to be alone with you until she knows you better?

[TheSpaceGnome]

What do you mean by "disarming"? That usually means making a person helpless/unable to defend themselves.

I wouldn't feel helpless, nor the need to defend myself if she's the one who's paranoid, but I'd be confused, and I'd be disinterested in her for assuming the worst.

[Guy13]

No‼️ I like it as it’s good judgment. I find it attractive. Just the opposite for me and one deserving respect and gentleness. Definitely hot.

[FilmGuy93]

9/10 times; absolutely not. No. If anything, that kind of thing makes me go into defense mode.

[dandrummond501]

I personally prefer the woman takes all the time she wants while she gets to know what kind of a man I am

[Anonymous]

It was the first time it happened to me. But it's because I was young and didn't understand the manipulativness of the female mind. Typically the women who do this is so they gain an upper hand by shaming you into being meek.

Guys anytime a woman acts like this get the he'll away. She is toxic. And it won't get any better.

[D_Bone_Steak]

That's some major trust issues if she's afraid of me. Not a common female trait to be honest.

[tdog090090]

some girls are like that but from personal experiance its annoying when she is scared of you cuz then they can't give a good reason on why so too me i see it as a red flag

[BJP21]

That will depend on what it is she is afraid of. Talk it out.

[Pohjolan]

Why would someone want to date someone they are afraid of in the first place?

[KrakenAttackin]

No, it's not disarming, quite the opposite.

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't feel good, but it would be understandable.

[Guardian45]

That is disturbing to me.