Girls, would you let a guy you're not attracted to massage your feet? How intimate is a foot massage to you?

[Anonymous]

Recently, at a wedding reception, a girl I've known and have always been attracted to, let me massage her feet. She complained how they hurt from dancing, so I said I would rub them if she wanted. She smiled and put them on my lap. She has always been very nice to me but I never read too much into it but I feel, that her letting me touch her feet is somewhat intimate. Do you agree? I wouldn't think a girl would let a guy that she isn't at least somewhat attracted to actually touch her in that way. I'm I wrong to think that?

[SueShe]

I certainly would not allow anyone touch my feet unless that person is a podiatrist, a professional sports masseur or a person that specializes in handling feet.

You are right though, feet to me are very intimate and would not want anyone to touch them just because that person has a foot fetish, a fantasy or a liking for feet.

It is a no go and in your descriptive, I fail to understand why a girl would let her sweaty and (probably) rather smelly feet be touched by an acquaintance.

I would go as far as to say that it is a lack of hygiene because those feet could have had foot fungus (athlete's foot) and that is another red flag.

[Asker]

Feet don't bother me but yes, it was kinda gross, because they were warm and sweaty from being in heels. I did wash my hands afterwards. It's interesting, because I thought the same thing as you when she let me rub them. I couldn't believe she let me touch them without at least saying, "are you sure you want to? They're kinda gross from dancing" but then again, I offered.

[SueShe]

Oh yes, I forgot about the sweaty feet. You were a real hero :-)

[Changiis07]

Heck to the no lol that is too intimate. It's like we have to be in a relationship for some time for me to let that happen

[Asker]

I think it's very intimate too. Do you think her letting me rub her feet is a good sign she's attracted to me? I honestly believe anytime a girl lets you touch her is a good sign.

[Changiis07]

Yes it's a possibility because I have had a guy recently touch my shirt and that was just my shirt and I didn't like that because I am not attracted to him

[Asker]

Thanks.

[DevikaButts95]

I think I would have to be a little attracted to them, but I don't think I would need greatly attracted to them for that. Especially if my feet hurt and I thought the person would do it.

[Agirlinneedhelp]

Absolutely not. If I'm not attracted to someone, even a slight touch on the back would get me uncomfortable tbh.

[Anonymous]

Feet are gross. Leave them alone.