What hurts your feelings?

Question

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Rudeness.

Being in a conversation with someone who doesn't listen. They're just thinking of what they want to say next. Or they don't think my words have value.

Being interrupted in the middle of a sentence like I don't exist. I think it's very rude.

Being told that one of my opinions is stupid. I welcome respectful discussion, information and other perspectives, but people who say an opinion is idiotic reveal their own idiocy.

Those are minor. The big one would be betrayal. Loyalty and trust are everything to me.

es20490446e · Accepted Answer

People being nasty for no apparent reason.

Although it really doesn't get me, because I know it is not about me. These people are just like that with everyone else. Rather it feels like a brief scare in a terror movie.

Those people I don't engage with. I straight remove them from my life.

Happily that very rarely happens. For most rude people less drastic techniques work better. Like making fun insults about their behavior, saying straight "no", or lastly telling them that are being beaches.

12Volt · Answer

Not getting the thank you wave. A guy has been stuck in a parking lot for days. No one in traffic will stop and let him out. So you stop and hold up angry traffic, just to help him out. Doesn't the rat bastard at least owe you a thank you wave for your help?

nawtee_me · Answer

I try not to let my feeling get hurt. If something negative is said I try not to take it seriously. Buy if it is from a family member then it hurts... I forgive them though as soon as I can after the initial hurt is gone. Forgiving others is for my well being and not exactly for theirs...

MCheetah · Answer

Not much. But what annoys me/pisses me off, is being compared to worthlessness/uselessness (average). I hate being compared to insignificance more than anything.

NathanDavis · Answer

those who love me, care for me... and are friends to me only them could ever hurt me  and then I forgive and move on, because I know they didn't really mean it

DizzyDesii · Answer

People who are rude for no reason. You can be respectfully blunt/honest without going overboard. I also hate when people dont keep their word

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

The last time my feeling were hurt was when the cheesesteak place down the road closed after being in business for 31 years.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

When the household all got to suffer with a horrible holiday cause just one person is a junkie and can't learn to get their life together.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

When religions, nationalities, countries, subcultures, etc get stereotyped. When I get judged by some dang human being. When I get compared with another person. When people talk shmutzy about my Flower Girl.

HighValue · Answer

Words. Luckily on the internet nobody ever says anything messed up so I am totally safe here. :p

AnUglyBarnacle · Answer

Attacking my character without even knowing me. Up and disappearing after messaging or hanging out with me, with no warning.

Mansearching · Answer

Not really hurt feeling except from people I'm close to or love (family, girlfriend, girlfriend family). Her kids and grandkids, I treat them as mine. Strangers just piss me off... lol

SnowedIn · Answer

People who are rude. People who are late. People who are needlessly unkind.

Damian69 · Answer

Being called names, body-shamed, told to "man up" simply showing emotions, anything that would hurt anyone else's feelings pretty much

MementoMori777 · Answer

I have become numb to the bulldoodoo, only people I care about can effect my feelings

Havthrills · Answer

Nothing anymore. I've become immune. There's things that irritate me but not hurt my feelings.

BJP21 · Answer

Quick judgements and assumptions that are false about. me.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I suppose it's more of an annoyance but... people that get personal (nasty) when it has nothing to do with the discussion.

Noahzaid · Answer

You being here wasting your life behind a blondy profile picture! what about you?

SlavicThor · Answer

Not much hurts me these days, however I would say "betrayal" people going behind one's back because there's a lack of respect in that

sassyredhead · Answer

Being ignored  Being led on or lied to

Anonymous · Answer

This is G@G ain't now way I'd share that. Let alone with women. Why not just ask, "what is your weakness I can exploit and use against you". 😂😂😂

AimeeKyle · Answer

People who pretend to be genuine and then stick it up your a$$…….

LiamJHayden · Answer

I can think of things that tick me off, but nothing that hurts my feelings.

Iron_Man · Answer

Disrespectful comments hidden below the belt

clampfan101 · Answer

Beyond what one would expect, me. I’m always too hard on myself.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Mean relatives that's why I cut my mean relatives out of my life

Anonymous · Answer

You because you choose to date a rich, handsome instead of me.

carlito20000 · Answer

when iam horny and my girlfriend says no to sex , that hurts me more than anything , i feel weak when that happens

Sabretooth · Answer

the girl I came to view as a blessing to any man... she views me as the Devil.

Anonymous · Answer

"Gender affirming care" it hurts to see someone who is being taken advantage of by the medical community.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Rudeness, bigotry, pointless negativity.

melanieeeB · Answer

Only people who are close to me

Sixgunsound · Answer

That would require having feelings.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

A number of things.

AsaKyo · Answer

When someone pretends to care about you

LavLavLuv · Answer

lots of things

kellytheman · Answer

When a girl leads me on or cheats on me.

AmeerX · Answer

Dishonesty and drama and heartbreak

msc545 · Answer

being ignored.

CubaPirate · Answer

Lies and deciet

trina_x · Answer

betrayal!

sheikalana · Answer

Mixed signals.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Brtrayal

Anonymous · Answer

Not much.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm heartless

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