Did feminism ever ruin a relationship with a woman you know?

[Anonymous]

It can be a friendship or a romantic relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it ruined mine because it ruined my girlfriend. My high school girlfriend got involved with a feminist group during university. She started getting unpleasant and defensive about all kinds of thing in our relationship and it affected us more and more. She had an underlying resentment and anger toward males in general and she sometime took it out on me. When she decided to go on a sex strike to support her friends who were doing it, I cut her loose. She was a completely different person than just a couple years earlier, and not someone I could be in a relationship with anymore.

[Asker]

I know you feel. My used-to-be good friend said something really hurtful, and it broke my heart because I never treated her wrong. I was always kind to her. Her personality just changed and turned really toxic.

[Lovelylady92]

From a non-feminist perspective, yes! I was raised that women deserve the same opportunities as men in the workplace. However, in day to day living, m n should be the providers and protectors of the family so the woman can be a stay at home wife if she chooses it and it’s best for the family. Feminism seeks to destroy gender roles and forces men and women to take on characteristics that go against their nature. It adds a ton of pressure on women to be perfect in every area of her life. I’ve seen men become more selfish, entitled, and less masculine. They’ve lost the mindset of doing what he needs to so his wife can flourish. What a good woman is given, she’ll return to the man tenfold. A relationship is a partnership, but the differences between men and women should be honored. Feminism makes that much more difficult to do.

[Asker]

I enjoyed reading your perspective. And I am surprised this is coming from a woman so young. I agree that being feminine should be respected. A woman doesn't need to be more like men to be appreciated. She should be respected, but also, being a good man is now frowned upon.

You are picked on and teased for being kind to a woman. Whenever I am nice to a girl, she automatically assumes I want sex from her, and I am doing it out of the goodness of my heart. I act selfish and cold-hearted so that I won't be bullied at work or in another environment.

You can easily be socially ostracized by just for being nice to a woman. But I do think you are right. I have become so greedy and self-centered. I lack the same empathy and compassion I used to have for others.

[bamesjond0069]

I mean I never try to be friends or dare feminists. I fucked a bunch though. Most of them had boyfriends and husband's. So I mean I wouldn't ever be into one. They are all terrible and immoral people. No exceptions.

[Guy13]

Yes and usually by the second date...

[Subglacial]

No.

Give me your Disagrees.

[Asker]

It's not a debate, just a question.