What does it mean when an oblivious girl notices little things?

[GiemontD]

This one girl who I used to have a thing with used to never notice the little things when we liked each other. But now it seems like see notices everything, but if anything we are friends right now. Does this behavior mean anything?

[Anonymous]

What I think from my opinion it means that maybe she was less concerned about herself when she was in "like" or "love" with you. It happened to me as well. Before, I never use to notice the small things in my relationship until we hit bumps in the road and now I went through a process where I put myself first.

Maybe that is what she is doing, wanting to know why things are different between you too. An open discussion is necessary.

[GiemontD]

That is very interesting. But what would I even talk about in this open discussion? I mean things definitly are different between us. We used to like each oher, but it went nowhere. Now we are closer friends than ever before. Like now she will put her head on my shoulder or sit next to me a lot at a party which is cool and all, but I think she does it because she is a natural flirt.

[Anonymous]

she's paying more attention, maaybe she's more interested

[Voltaire]

Yeah, it means that she was only pretending to be oblivious.

[GiemontD]

Its hard to say, but then again you might be right. She is oblivious even with her friends, but then again she has ADD so shouldn't that not make her oblivious?