Why does having money change everything for women/girls?

[Sevenpointfive]

it's like it's engrained from childhood to seek the richest person.

[Lliam]

" it's engrained from childhood to seek the richest person." What nonsense.
Who doesn't like having money?
What about men and their toys?

I think it's the men who are all about money who think that's all women think about.

Out of all my dates and girlfriends, I never met a gold digger. So where are all these gold diggers? Hanging around places where all the shallow men with expensive cars, clothes, watches and gold chains hang out? Neither those kind of men or women have any idea of what truly has value.
And the kind of shallow men who don't have enough money to buy the kind of yacht girl arm candy whore they are attracted to are bitter.

All while normal people (the majority) go on to get into relationships and have happy lives.

[Sevenpointfive]

i won't thumbs down you but i disagree

[richardcory]

Having money makes so many things in life easier, so it makes sense some people will seek it out.

[MemeSupreme]

people like the idea of new opportunities and someone being rich can bring that. it doesn't mean i'm itching to find myself a rich guy, but it's definitely a bonus lol

[Sevenpointfive]

so you'd sell yourself?

[MemeSupreme]

no, i'll clarify on what i said.

being rich is what i consider an "extra" kind of quality. stuff like being tall or fit where it's nice if a guy has it, but he doesn't NEED it, as that stuff is superficial. i will not just date a guy because he is rich, since we need chemistry, similar views, knowing we can rely on each other, and just having a true connection. i grew up poor too, so a rich guy would probably have a harder time connecting with me, since our worlds are very different. i feel like i'd connect better with someone who can relate on some level.

[Sevenpointfive]

if i could give you an MHO right now i would

[WanderingLoveWizard]

All dating a rich guy does for most women is make them feel bad about themselves.
I'm not even rich, but every girl I've had over leaves feeling bad about where they're at in life.
If I show them my house or take them to a lavish hotel, they're not impressed, they're just upset with their own choices in life, given that we're the same age.
It's pretty stupid if you ask me

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I've learned to just take them to McDonald's and go to their place. That way I don't have to hear their sob story

[Sevenpointfive]

they can afford a place? wow! i've never known a girl outside of a stripper to have their own place, unless they were older than 23

[WanderingLoveWizard]

It's rare bro

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Child support checks

[Sevenpointfive]

i made sure to not get roped into that mess

[Avicenna]

It would for a lot of guys as well

[Sevenpointfive]

but males aren't raised to be gold diggers. they are raised to be breadwinners.

[Nikki1989]

Money changes everything for men as well. 🤦‍♀️

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't know if we want to go there. money buys things.