Help me understand what do girls like?

[archnightt]

I recently came across a post from this model and I just didn't understand what she sees in that guy who is her boyfriend or husband. He has weird tattoos, weird hair and he's so buff, which is also weird because I always hear girls say that too much muscle is gross.

On the other hand there are girls in the same age group (early 20s in this case) who fangirl over BTS Jungkook or Timothee Chalamet.

These guys are so different from each other, I simply don't understand what is exactly appealing to girls

[D_Bone_Steak]

Girls don't say what they really want, but they want buff guys... I know this as fact. Way back when I used to use my real picture here for a profile pic... I could be in the middle of a heated argument with them about how them being vegan is retarded and all I had to do was 'hint' at sexy time with them and their opinion would totally change. All of a sudden I was no longer a faggot that could never get laid along with every other slur they could come up with... I was just fucking sexy all of a sudden.

They know what time it is

Face to face during a shit test, all I have to do is flex my biceps while I brush my hair back. Yeah, so hitting those weights is always a great choice even though they'll get on here and claim they hate it. It's like height... yeah they'll say they'll date a guy shorter than her, but then her boyfriend is 6'9"... I'm sure she would. You believe her? because I don't. Something tells me that my 5'3" friend would end with her wanting to go home with me and that if Shaquille O'Neal shows up to the party she's going home with him.

They basically give politically correct answers when the spotlight is on them... but that's about as far as that moral indignation is nothing more than trash when it comes down to what they "really" want.

There is other things... like big hair. Chicks seem to be all about that shit for some reason. I'm not saying to break out the hairspray and take notes from the 80's metal scene... but look at that vampire dude they were all lusting after there for a while... that dude looks like a guy I might accidentally knock over when I see a beer about to be tipped over. The actor himself even roasted the character (Twilight). 50 shades of gray... Yeah women are not going to just explain that shit away... they have rape fantasies. 😂

I'm just rambling now so I'll end it here. Bottom line... chicks say one thing but are all about another. Don't believe their lying words. Hit the gym, have big hair, and treat them like shit. Trust me bro... I have no proof.

[Vegasrunner]

You're making the mistake of thinking like a man. We value physical attractiveness and can make matting decisions based solely on that. Women are much more complex and looks are only a small part of the equation. Think about it. They did a study where they took all models profiles and put them on Tinder and took fat ugly women's photos on the same app and the women received on average 10x more matches than the model.

[Anonymous]

Well, your first mistake is thinking we're all the same. That's ridiculous. There are over 3 billion women on the planet. How could you possibly expect to fit that many people into one box, metaphorically speaking?

And then of course, you're making everything about looks. I'm not a fan of the body builder type, but maybe he has a wonderful personality? Or if she's some IG model, that whole thing might just be for attention. But if I were to judge those two pictures entirely based on looks, I'd pass on both of them. I don't like guys that big, his face is not appealing, his hair is awful and I'm not a fan of those tattoos. The second one, I'd feel like I was dating a girl almost. Picking 2 guys who are fairly extreme relative to each other with the vast majority of the population falling in the middle and trying to complain about it is quite misleading.

So, in short, stop trying to figure women out. Figure out one woman you like and likes you. It's insulting when you think we should all be the same, feel the same, and like the same things. And you're all lucky we don't or most of you would be lonely forever. Be grateful for the diverse opinions and desires.

[Anonymous]

Different girls have different preferences.

First guy does have weird hair, but he's not at that point where he has too much muscle for most girls, and I personally like his tattoos. Besides, even body builders get wives, so there's still some women out there who have no upper muscle limit.

Timothee Chalamet is kinda weird looking. I don't get it.

And Jungkook is very attractive, but in a very innocent way, to me personally. Like he's more cheek squeezing cute than steaming sexy. I feel zero sexual attraction to him. But he's nice to look at in the way that a flower or a kitten is nice to look at.

[Anemone978]

Depends on the person lol When I was younger I used to be so attracted to guys with black hair and light blue eyes and light skin.. Then as I got older now I like tan guys with brown eyes and big hair lol I have always been attracted to the not so buff guys I don't know why but I like thin guys.. with abs lol

[Rockstarrrrr]

Different girls so, different tastes... I think girls from teens to 22 are usually into the pretty boy type... And when they get older they're more into the handsome rugged type... but people have different tastes in general... Some girls like big or muscular dudes.. some don't... Some like beards... Some don't... Etc

[Tomisworthless]

Bro it’s very simple. Women like strong dominant men who are aggressive and assertive but know how to tame their violence. Someone who can love and protect her yet at the same time can go Rambo if needed on a threat. Also career, status and wealth play a factor but just genetically speaking. Masculine, strong, leadership, assertive, dominate, handsome , muscular, confident, good personality and ambitious.

[shades777]

if we're going off looks she's probably into the muscles, he could not have tattoos and she probably still be with him if the muscles were there.


Girls who say they don't like muscles like muscles, ripped guy with muscles, dad bod has muscle's, no matter how you slice it being a man has to have muscles, it's inherently manly

[Berethor]

Read the Hunk Trope, BTS are from East Asia where the Bishonen Trope is pretty popular.

[Glam23]

Tbh all girls are unique and different cus what I like might not be what a tomboy might like or another type of girl might like. So it depends on the girls personality or mindset and also d kind of girl she is. But though there are things that will attract girls to guys generally like a guy must care for us, love us for who we are, he must be confident and definitely attractive to her in her own way i guess. Dats all to it.

[ShesRad80]

its the same with guys who want the girl in the picture lol some of us dont get what you see in her. one could say she likes the bad boy type

[msmissydc]

Is it so hard to understand that we dont all like the same type? In adition to that personality can also make a huge difference.

[Ben487]

women like muscles but you're right Timothy Chalamet is going to be a lot more attractive to women than the roid raging guy in the other image. Especially among the younger girls.

[EpicSnail]

Read this, it is quite informative:
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[Anonymous]

every girl is different man. just like how, u probably like Asian girls , and I like lightskins

[Guardian45]

Variety is the spice of Life. To each their own. One person's garbage is another person's steak.

[Anonymous]

He's probably got a big dick.