Do men want modern women?

[Hafza99]

[Berethor]

Well modern women are ruining Japan so I don't think so, tradwives tend to be better.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2022/06/03/japan-low-births-population-decline-2021/

[UniquelyBasic]

I hear modern women being described as having higher standards or they are too masculine for being independent. I think it's fine to want a certain type of woman but it seems like what some men want instead is a woman who doesn't know any better and who will be impressed with the bare minimum.

[Hafza99]

Is it being “impressed with the bare minimum” or is it being humble?

[Wwwyzzerdd]

No. These “modern women” want to use men while stating they want traditional values without adherence to anything traditional. Many can’t even cook a meal. These women exhibit masculine traits, over compensate with makeup, and in my experience will adopt lifestyle changes that they don’t understand or fully comprehend.

In relationships with these types of women they will exhibit attitude, rudeness, and disrespect while demanding that she be treated better.

There isn’t anything really incentivizing the relationship, they bring what to the relationship? Genitalia?

From what I’ve seen these women lack empathy, the ability to care for others, basic life skills, life balance and respect for their partner.

[inhua]

instinctively no. some men may virtue signal that they want modern women but deep down they don't. it's a shame tactic meant to peer pressure other men into accepting women they themselves personally don't want

[Summeroflove]

Whar do you mean my modern women? I cringe when a woman says she’s modern or traditional…. We all want different things. But it’s like some women put on this major act and irs just pathetic.

[Hafza99]

A modern woman is a feminist a woman who believes she is “independent” career focused doesn’t need a man puts marriage last a masculine woman

[Summeroflove]

“I don’t need a man” well many women want one. But if someone doesn’t wanna date. That’s fine.

But there is a percentage of women who think as I deceived. At least women of that mindset leave us alone and don’t waste our time. I’m happy with them being single

[Anonymous]

no the modern woman is not ideal for most men.

[Hafza99]

Could you explain why please I’m conducting a survey

[Opinion Owner]

the modern woman is often times more promiscuous, more likely to have higher standards, more likely to be demanding, more likely to leave you when they can trade up for a 'better' mate, more likely to wait until they're in their 30's before seriously dating, more likely to cheat, they are more likely to be opinionated and argumentative, more likely to play the victim, more likely to initiate divorce and cash in, more likely to have babies outside of marriage. They have less need for a man in the first place. Men become replaceable and less important to the modern woman.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure some modern women are great but being able to spot the good one's from the bad one's is a losing game. Men have a few options... they can always fish elsewhere for the right kind of woman, give up entirely and not play the game or roll the dice with these modern women.

[slatyb]

No, I only date Neanderthal women. They are hard to find.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What type of modern woman? They aren't all the same.

[Anonymous]

Generally speaking, no. Modern women have turned their backs on virtually all of the things that make them valuable to men, with one exception... sex.

[Anonymous]

Modern women are literally the opposite of what men want.

[Spade_01]

Please describe 'modern woman'.

[Hafza99]

Strong independent not needing a man but want a man type of women

[Spade_01]

Erm.. No. I am more into a traditional, Islamic and feminine kind of woman.

[Hafza99]

Ok thank you brother :) also what City are you in please?

[Spade_01]

No problem. I don't think you'd be able to point my city out on an international forum unless you're living in the same country as me. I live in India. You too?

[Hafza99]

No I live in the uk I think Indian women are more traditional than women here but I think feminism has also crept into India

[Spade_01]

Sure Indian women are more traditional and conservative according to western standards and feminism has entered India. But I don't care about all traditional women much, I am a practicing Muslim and I would only prefer to be with a woman who's a practicing Muslimah as well.

[Hafza99]

There’s no such thing as a practicing Muslim your either a Muslim or not also there are some “Muslim” women who are indoctrinated with feminism and don’t care about men’s wabts and need they are not best bet to becoming wives

[Spade_01]

Ahh so you're one of the mature ones. Yes, I get it. The term I used was to differentiate from 'Muslims' who'll make things halaal as per their wish, men and women being influencers using the 'hijab' and doing completely opposite of what the hijab is meant to do, romanticising things in Islam and crossing the limits and I'm not sure how many times do they even pray. Really the kind of people I'd prefer to stay away from.

But you're right, it's just 'Muslim'.

[Anonymous]

More traditional actually

[OfDeath]

Yes because they're young.

[clampfan101]

How would you define that?

[Anonymous]

Some of them. So me of them, not at all!

[Anonymous]

Not really.