My friend won’t stop talking about this one guy at all. Also is on a dating app even though she’s married. Should I drop her?

[Anonymous]

looking for better female friend role models. She’s supportive as a friend overall, but I’m tired of hearing about this one guy and I don’t think they’re even dating. He’s like ALL she talks about. And I’m feeling uninspired.

[Anonymous]

May I have her number lol she’s sounds like a whore. That is up to you to keep her or drop her. We all have friends who have issues but we accept them for who they are if we’re willing to. If she does nothing but bring you down then I’d drop her. I don’t know the exact saying, I know there’s a few but if it’s something like show me who your friends are and I’ll show you who you are. I’d weigh the good pros vs the cons. Maybe speak to her, tell her, assuming you like her, that you love your friendship but would appreciate it if she didn’t involve you in her marital affairs as you’re not ok w that.

[kylee2437]

That’s up to you. No matter what we say , it’s a decision based on how disgusted you are with the situation.

[Asker]

Well she said something that pissed me off. But first…So I was a virgin until I was sexually assaulted in college. It’s been devastating. I was able to get into successful relationships later after that but took time. Anyway, so she talks about that guy nonstop and says how he prefers virgins and what not, and she was like “good luck finding a virgin in *our city name*” and she told me I should tell him I’m a slut next time I see him. So I’m rightfully outraged that she’d say this, when she doesn’t even know anything about my sex life.

[Staximus]

Tell her to get a divorce, she's a moron

[Asker]

She told me I should tell that guy I’m a slut as a joke. I lost my virginity to a rapist. I don’t take this lightly whatsoever.

[Staximus]

Sounds like she has the morals of a street dog in heat.

[Asker]

She doesn’t know anything about my sexual personal life either. I don't know where she’d draw that conclusion. It’s weird because I don’t share that stuff with people.

[Asker]

I’m realizing so many people I thought were great were just acting…until I got to really know them. People are their best selves until you get closer to them.

[Staximus]

I myself usually don't get along with most people at first. I keep my distance until I figure out what kind of people they are. Not trying to bring any more problems or drama into my life

[Asker]

I blocked her and on social media. I don’t want to be associated with people like this in any way. She won’t stop talking about this guy and his preference for virgins and it’s disgusting. I seriously don’t care about him or this.