Why do some girls like to start drama?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex still live together and there can’t be one day where there’s not an argument cause she will start drama or do something that causes an argument such as taking things that don’t belong to her then when I call her out I get called a stupid motherfucker

[Oliverlogan263]

There are a few reasons why some girls may like to start drama:

1. Attention seeking - Some people crave drama and conflict because it gives them attention, even if it's negative attention. The arguing and fighting gets a reaction out of you, which is what they want.

2. Insecurity - People who are insecure about themselves may start fights to deflect attention from their own flaws. They feel better by putting others down.

3. Control - Some individuals use arguments and manipulation as a way to control others and assert power in the relationship. The drama gives them a sense of dominance.

4. Emotional immaturity - Some lack the communication skills and emotional regulation to deal with conflict in a healthy, constructive way. So they resort to Drama instead.

5. Unmet needs - There may be underlying emotional needs in your ex that are not being met. The conflict and arguing are a result of those unresolved issues, even if she handles it poorly.

6. Revenge - After a breakup, some people may try to start drama as a way to get revenge or "get back" at their ex. Especially if the relationship ended badly.

In your situation, living together after a breakup often leads to toxic dynamics and conflict. Your ex taking your things and calling you names are disrespectful behaviors.

The best way forward would be for one (or both) of you to move out to establish some physical and emotional space. Otherwise, the drama and arguing are likely to continue indefinitely. You both deserve a more peaceful living situation.

Hope this perspective provides some clarity and guidance. Let me know if you have any other questions.

[luvstoned4him]

That is a sign that you two aren't compatible. Don't waste time trying or wishing someone will change when they show you who they really are. If they won't compromise then you either leave or you put up with it

[Anonymous]

This isn't a gender problem. Your girl is just a toxic person. But I guess so are you since you chose her. 😂

[Asker]

My lack of experience led me to her anyone can pretend to be nice

[Opinion Owner]

You should of left her the moment she started being rude

[Miss_Pretty]

Some women thrive on drama because their life is boring without it. Yes its a thing lol. Sounds like its time for one of you to move out because this is clearly a very toxic relationship. Best of luck