What is a simple woman?

[Anonymous]

I don’t mean simple as in stupid or a term to offend/mock the intellectually disabled, I mean being a simple person. Does it mean in tastes, ambition, desires and personality and intelligence? That you’re a typical, average intelligence, traditional person? Or can it mean just in tastes?

[DaveJord]

To me a simple woman is someone that knows who she really is and set goals that are achievable. She has feelings and emotions, but she is not easily swayed by them, when it comes to achieving her goals.

A simple woman by definition is not over complicated, and she does not over complicate things that she has no control over... like for example her man. A simple woman does not get inside her own head and over complicate a rather uncomplicated issue. The only that makes it complicated is her, and we emotions and feelings that not even she can fully explain, then has some assumption that you as the man can make sense of it.

When she knows what she wants, how she wants it, and how to achieve it without being dissuaded by trivialities... when see can do this, then she is a simple, extremely fortunate and very attractive to men.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

To me it's a woman that isn't annoying and has a laid back personality.

[noemiii]

I whole heartedly do not believe there is a such thing as a simple woman unless she is just void of personality, aspirations and only lives to bask in femininity and is boring besides that. Women are meant to be complex, emotionally complex and versatile.

“Simple woman” can not be described as a typical woman because typically, women are complex. When I think of simple woman I think of a sex doll.

[BlackBeauty90]

When I think of you, I think of a simpleton.

When someone is called "simple" it means they are down to earth, rationale, etc.

[Staximus]

@BlackBeauty90 haha

[noemiii]

Funny you just clearly contradicted yourself by calling me “simple” but defining simple in a positive light. How cute. By the way, that’s not what it means. Simple means without variety. Most people live simple lives and that doesn’t mean they’re down to earth or rational. It just means they choose to live a simple, uneventful lifestyle and release their boredom on GAG by asking redundant questions so they’re heard.

Oh wait, that’s you.

[BlackBeauty90]

@noemiii - except my post is accurate as testified by the 4+ votes and yours is not with the 1 vote.

When people speak of "simple" live they don't mean without variety. It means unassuming. Some of the most unassuming - that means not pretentious, etc. - individuals have some of the most interesting lives.

[noemiii]

@BlackBeauty90 Oh wow, 4 votes. You must feel so accomplished by 4 votes. Congratulations. Is that the most attention you’ve gotten in a while?

First off, if you read the question, it says simple woman. Women are not simple. We are born to be complex, see the world through many emotions and colors, and create. There is no simple woman unless void of personality and creativity. Like I said, most people live simple lives. They wake up, go to work, come home to their family, and go back to sleep and repeat the cycle. They like the simplicity of their lifestyle. The woman generally adds complexity to the union and the man adds simplicity. While the woman asks her husband what shade of red looks the best on her lips, the man just picks one because they both look the same to him. That is SIMPLICITY.

[BlackBeauty90]

You ARE simple minded. My goodness. Simple is talking about a NON PRETENTIOUS ATTITUDE which is NOT DESIRABLE. If doesn't matter if a woman is as complex as a rubix cube and looks like a goddess the ONLY men who'll be interested will be those after cheap sex because her ATTITUDE means she has little value beyond that.

[BlackBeauty90]

*a pretenious attitude being undesirable. If someone says someone is simple it means they are NOT pretentious and thus DESIRABLE

[noemiii]

@BlackBeauty90 Again, you contradict yourself by going back and fourth as to if simple is a compliment or if it is derogatory. Like I said, you don’t know what simple means and keep trying to redefine it based on a males definition. There’s already a word for that sis, and it’s called a humble person, one who isn’t pretentious, arrogant and doesn’t live in grandiose. “Simple” is not the word for that. You can 100% be pretentious and simple.

Men use simple to describe a woman who shuts her mouth and does what she’s told. It’s an old 1950’s term for a housewife and it is completely derogatory. Calling someone simple minded, is an insult. Calling someone’s outfit simple translates over to meaning very little effort put into it.

If you are truly a woman, how about you try being your definition of “simple” woman because right now, you’re being just what you described, pretentious and loud. Why don’t you try being a simple woman and shutting up for a change?

[BlackBeauty90]

@noemiii god you're a FUCKING IDIOT.

The most popular connotation of “simple” is being low-maintenance. This means that in a courtship or a relationship, you're that type of girl who's not needy of a guy's time and attention.

[BlackBeauty90]

@noemiii - here you uneducated achieve nothing, never will achieve nothing panties in a twist "feminist" slobbering drivel

Dawn is a "simple" woman HEADHUNTED for jobs and VERY adept in traveling, etc. More than you WILL EVER BE

Dawn is smart, with a respectable job she was headhunted for, looks me in the eye when she answers awkward questions, and gives refreshingly honest answers. As for her apparent popularity with men, she’s more modest about her magnetism – though she does confirm she is currently with a boyfriend of a year whom she met on a dating app.

He’s with her, she believes, because she is genuine and an open book (“that’s what he tells his friends when he explains why he’s into me”).

“I don’t think there’s anything negative about being called simple – it shouldn’t be confused with being simple-minded,” she puts forth. “I do have opinions when it comes to the important things like my career. But when it comes to the small, everyday decisions, I don’t have that many opinions. I’m just very easy-going and flexible.”

She’s not fussed about material goods or fancy meals

[noemiii]

@BlackBeauty90 First of all, calm down. You’re not being a simple woman right now. No need to be so emotionally triggered. You do want a man right? Well you need to not be so opinionated.

Second, like I said. Low maintenance translates to a woman who doesn’t have a voice. One who does not bother a man or nag him. It’s a housewife who lets a man do what he wants. Women are naturally loving and nurturing, so it’s natural for them to be needy and loving. This is not some unnatural phenomenon for a woman. If a woman is not loving, caring and nurturing towards her man, what makes her loving caring and nurturing towards her children? Think about it.

If you read the replies, it’s all men why? Because it’s a man made definition. If a man asked you in a relationship to be simple, I would love to see how you’d react because you seem very opinionated. But remember, men like simple women so maybe you need to fix yourself.

[noemiii]

@BlackBeauty90 Lol, first off, I’m not a feminist. Second, more than I ever will be, or you either for that matter? Because you’re right here in the same place, arguing the same thing with me. And have 8 years on me too. Also, resorting to insults because I won’t accept your definition.

Dawn, I am not sure who this person is, but this is not a testimony for anyone anywhere. This woman has stated “I don’t have many opinions” which is simple, and means she shuts her mouth on a lot of topics being discussed. It’s a housewife mindset. AKA, boring and without depth.

I’m sure one can argue that they don’t find being called “colored” insulting, but in fact, it is.

News flash, you can also be a simple person, man or woman, and like fancy meals and material goods. The difference is if your life revolves around it or not.

[BlackBeauty90]

ROFL. It means that the woman is not annoying, is not high maintenance, is not overly demanding, etc.

In general it means that the woman has a good personality, is down to earth, etc. Is "simple" in that she doesn't dress like a slut & doesn't wear a ton of makeup.

[Hinaaaaa]

You defined it right 👍

[safricanluke]

I've always understood the term to mean that, that person is not high maintenence and that they do not need a lot of extravagance or excitement in order to enjoy life. Whenever someone refers to themselves or someone else as a simple girl, boy, woman, man, or person, to me it says that they want an uncomplicated life and/or relationship. For example, a "simple woman" might say that you don't have to take her to the best or newest restaurant, or to an exotic location, or anything like that, but that doesn't mean that she wouldn't go.

[236color]

I think, if this is something you heard a man say, that what he means is "low maintenance". Not someone that demands the most expensive of everything. That doesn't require constant attention, that can take care of minor things by herself.

[Unit1]

👩❤

[Anonymous]

To me, it just means a woman who is down to earth, isn't materialistic, doesn't expect a huge house or super fancy car, doesn't wear heavy makeup (or dress like so many modern women do), takes pleasure in the simple things in life, like family and friends.

[jshm2]

It's derogatory these days, hence people instead tend to say "vanilla woman" instead.

Basically a nicer way of saying straight and unassuming.

[236color]

My understanding of the term "vanilla" was as opposed to kinky.

[sheenagwapa]

tastw... you like simple clothed, not materialistic

[Huntingnfishin]

A simple woman in my thoughts would be someone who understands herself and what she likes. She doesn't desire excess but demands what she wants.

[BLP11520]

Someone who rarely does anything exciting or just goes through the motions

[Staximus]

It means she just wants normal things in life, doesn't want an extravagant lifestyle and is low maintenance.

[LiamJHayden]

I would think different people would define the term differently. It could mean "No fake drama."

[Anonymous]

I'm a little surprised at the simple minded answer you selected as female MHO. It's just a deflection from a defensive woman that ignores the actual question.

[beechman2129]

Basically, a girl who is down to earth and not too bossy. A traditional women.

[JamesRandiDebates]

All women are simple once you recognize what to look for.

[Freyke]

One that is easy to read and easy to please.

[Sunnybeach123]

That a woman has good taste in things.

[AnusNdaPainus]

A quiet woman.

[Sonorous]

Me‎‎‎

[Sonorous]

I am a simple woman