If your girlfriend watches porn and masturbates without your knowing, will you feel betrayed?

[expet]

[pancake]

It's important to understand that people's reactions to situations in relationships, including a partner watching porn or masturbating, can vary widely based on individual feelings, beliefs, cultural backgrounds, past experiences, and relationship dynamics. Here's a general overview of how some individuals might feel:

Some individuals might feel betrayed or hurt, especially if there was an understanding or expectation in the relationship that such activities would be shared or communicated about. They might interpret their partner's secrecy as hiding something or being dishonest.

Others might feel indifferent or neutral about their partner's personal habits, recognizing that everyone has private moments and that self-pleasure is a natural human act. They might view it as a personal act that doesn't necessarily reflect on the relationship.

Some might feel insecure or inadequate, wondering if their partner's consumption of porn or act of masturbation implies dissatisfaction with the intimate aspects of their relationship.

Some partners might understand the distinction between self-pleasure and relationship intimacy, recognizing that one can enjoy both without it being a reflection of dissatisfaction or a desire for someone else.

A few might feel curious and want to discuss it, perhaps even exploring the possibility of integrating it into their shared intimate experiences.

If one's partner is frequently choosing masturbation and porn over shared intimate moments, some individuals might feel concerned about the balance and health of the relationship. It's always essential for partners to communicate openly about their feelings, boundaries, and needs. If someone in a relationship feels uncomfortable or uncertain about an aspect of their partner's behavior, it's beneficial to approach the topic with an open mind, empathy, and a desire to understand. Every individual and relationship is unique, so what might be acceptable and comfortable for one person or couple might not be for another.

[Chevy1_kb]

When my ex did it I use to feel a little weird like he thought I wasn't a turn on and had to watch porn to get him horny so I felt a little betrayed iam not much of a porn person not my thing I have watched it about 4 or five times in my whole life but that's when I was without a boyfriend so I asked him can I ask you something am I not enough of a turn on when am next to you he said no don't be silly a said so why u watching fkn porn right in front of me then and a don't know a think sometimes a should just get Tae fk away fae ma ex because I member I was up at his he was on the phone to his girlfriend's and one of them was talking ok and then he hung up and started looking at his phone and smiling then he ended up putting his speaker on phone to his ear the and I herd moaning noises a girl ok I mean I can tell sexual noises to normal geezo a said a know am not your girlfriend anymore but can't you have a little fkn respect watch them when a go home he said you don't even know what she sounds like I said listen pal av spoke to your to girlfriend's loads a times ok so don't geez it a can tell when he's up to something it's easy to see through anyone especially ones that are the shittiests at lying like him and can't do it right I seriously ok I say in most of my things I still sleep with my ex I don't know why I do I fuckn hate him in a good way aswel just as much as a think he's kl to he does ma nut in to

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Sometimes a little alone time is nice most guys find the have a solution in hand Sometimes it is nice to try different before trying to do it with partner a dry run to check what position you would be in. but just to see if you would like to do

[BryanMoore]

She's living her best life and potentially indulging in fantasies we can't act on ourselves... sounds great to me!

[DizzyDesii]

We always considered it a betrayal if i did something without him or he did something without me

[Nikki1989]

The relationship would be over at that point.

[Anonymous]

I hope no guy would feel this way. I wouldn’t care if my boyfriend did it.

[CubaPirate]

Not at all we all have needs and we can't be there for each other all the time

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope, its just porn.

[zagor]

No, but then I don't even know who she is.

[jacob33131]

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest bit.

[bananathunder]

no... we all do it. I'm sure you do too

[Redstang88]

Nope

[In_Trance]

No... why would I?