Why does the girl who WANTS me, not give me the time of day, but the girl who doesn't want me, is always inviting me over?

[Anonymous]

Make it make sense

[YesterdaysChild]

It doesn't make sense to me. Are you trolling? What leads you to believe what you say is true?

[Asker]

Why doesn't it make sense to you

I'm not trolling.

It leads me to believe that what I'm saying is true, because everything i say is true

[CuriousTommy]

Ummm... How do you know who wants you and who doesn't? Also actions speak louder than words. So the one that wants you might lie because she likes attention from guys. The one that DOESN'T want you might actually want you but is too shy to tell you. Or she could actually just have you 100% in the friend zone and trust you too much

[Nifrayu]

Are you sure you have that right? You are likely misreading them.

[Asker]

Nope

[Asker]

The girl who wants me, won't give me the time of day, yet, the one who doesn't, is always inviting me over

[Nifrayu]

Do you want to expand on that? You literally said that exact thing already. How about you start with how you found out how they feel about you.

[Asker]

They both told me how they felt. The one who does, told me before I did, and the one who doesn't want me, told me after I was trying to show her i did

[Nifrayu]

The one who invites you over is either inviting you to hang out as a friend or is just using you for sex.
The other one may be jealous that you are accepting invites from the other girl as well as the fact you expressed feelings for her. That's my hypothesis.

[Asker]

She was telling me how she felt before I did (the one that likes me). Should I have not told her back?

The one that is "just a friend", and i, are not having sex

[Nifrayu]

I misunderstood that part then. But given that, I don't know. I got nothing.

[Asker]

That's my point is, why. Why would she say she likes me, but then not give me the time of day. And on the opposite spectrum a girl say she doesn't like me, but is always hanging out?

WTF, LADIES!

[BrightBubblyKat]

Maybe the girl who ‘wants’ you changed her mind. Or she’s shy, or insecure, or something you might’ve done creeped her out? Maybe the girl who ‘doesn’t’ like you either does, or just likes you as a friend?