Honest Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I was flirting with her over text and she never responded or anything but she likes my posts on social media should i just leave her alone? When we hangout I feel that she is attracted to me she is 39 and I'm 20.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man that's a tricky situation. A few things I'd think about:

- The age gap is pretty big at 19 years. She may see you more as a younger friend than someone to date seriously.

- Even if she's attracted, flirting over text when she's not responding isn't really respecting her boundaries. I'd back off from that for now.

- Liking your social posts doesn't necessarily mean she wants more. Girls can be friendly without it leading anywhere.

- How she acts in person is a better sign than social media stuff. But from what you said it sounds kinda ambiguous - you feel attraction but it's not super clear.

My advice would be to play it cool. Stop directly flirting for now and just talk to her normally next time you hang out. Pay attention to see if she gives off any clearer "I'm into you" signals. If after that you still think there could be something, maybe ask her out explicitly and see what she says.

But I wouldn't get my hopes up too much either, given the big age gap. Just feel it out more casually and don't push too hard. The last thing you wanna do is creep her out, right? Play it chill and see what happens.