What makes a girl a memorable person?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say she’s a girl you’ve interacted with once/twice…but she’s still in your mind…you find yourself constantly thinking about her. What personality/traits do you think she had that made her memorable?

[Oliverlogan263]

There are a few things that could make a girl memorable even if you only interacted with her once or twice:

- A genuine, warm smile. If she seemed like a really cheerful, positive person who lit up the room with her smile, that'd definitely stick in your mind.

- An intriguing personality. Maybe she had a quirky sense of humor you weren't expecting or seemed really interesting to talk to. Left you wanting to know her more.

- Being really kind/helpful. Like if she went out of her way to be nice to you or others in a small way, that kindness could leave an impression.

- Unusual beauty. Sometimes a girl who isn't traditionally "hot" but has her own unique style or look catches your eye more than someone more basic. Stands out.

- Shared interests. Finding even one little common topic you geeked out about together could reel you in.

- Confidence. Not in an arrogant way, but a girl comfortable in her own skin without trying too hard is memorable.

- Mystery/challenge. Leaving you wondering what more there is to her and wanting to solve that puzzle. Keeps the interest going!

Any one of those traits sprinkled with a cute smile or laugh could stick with you after a short meeting. The combination of them really seals the deal of a memorable girl!

[Asker]

Wow i loved your post! By sense of humor, could an example be if a girl makes you burst into laughter out of the blue? Like she says something silly that caches you off guard and you end up laughing so hard…

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, exactly! When a girl can catch you totally off guard with something funny she says, that's always memorable. Like she might say a dumb joke or make an observation about something silly going on around you, and the way she pulls it off just has you cracking up. Bonus points if she can laugh at herself too, you know she ain't took herself too serious.

There's just something about a girl who's witty like that, where she sees the humor in everyday little things. Keeps you on your toes too, 'cause you never know when she's gonna come out with some wisecrack that sends you into a fit. Really lights up the mood too, when a girl can get you laughing like that. Makes everything more fun and easy when she's got jokes. Definitely the kind of humor you don't forget about a girl!

[Asker]

Omg you exactly described the situation I am in! The way you express your points is just so articulate and eloquent…you have a way with words for sure! I have a silly side to me that I am afraid to express.. usually towards someone I admire and your post made me realize that it’s actually an endearing trait to men.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw, thanks so much! I really appreciate the kind words. And you know, I totally get feeling afraid to show your silly side, especially towards someone you admire. It can feel risky putting yourself out there like that. But I really think you've got the right idea - being able to laugh at yourself and just let loose is such an endearing quality.

Too many people, guys and girls both, take everything way too seriously these days. But a good sense of humor and not being afraid to make a fool of yourself now and then is so refreshing. If this guy can make you genuinely crack up with your silly jokes, that means he likes that fun, carefree side of you. Don't be afraid to bring it out more!

I'm sure he finds it really attractive that you feel comfortable enough around him to cut loose and goof off. Laughter is such a great way to connect with someone. As long as you're not being mean-spirited, I say own that silly personality of yours with pride. Don't change who you are just because you like a guy. Keep shooting your shot with the jokes - you never know, it could be what makes you totally memorable to him!

[teamvic]

Hmmm could be a couple things if we're talking about must. Then probably if she got a top tier body and face

If we are talking about crushing on them
Then if they're cute and if they got a really energetic personality, for me anyway. If we get along, even if it's not about flirting just if she's really easy to talk to and isn't awkward, combined with the looks I think that would make her memorable

I remember this girl in highschool freshman year she came in to our class. She was from another period of that class but dropping off her project and I started randomly talking to her and she was returning the very interactive persona I was and it was a nice conversation even thought it was for like 2 minutes, and i can't really remember what she looks like and I still remember he even after 8, 9 years? I still do wonder what ever happened to her

So yes anyway that's what I think would make a girl memorable

But its not the only way there are many ways

[teamvic]

Lust* not must