So a first date what is she saying?

[strateguy632]

a guy m22 finds a day good for her f23 to meet. they negotiate which place to go, and to split the bill. they meet, sit, order chat... and when the food arrives, she starts saying "sometimes i feel ugly".

1, is that fishing for a compliment or what?

2, what is the worst and best reply he should have replied?

[wysiwyg2525]

She is a attention grabber. Do go in a second date or meet up. She is testing you. If you got to go through this test then in a long-term relationship will always be a test. For example She invites in if her frieds over and she arrive early as she is out at the store. You girlfriend then wanted to test you to see if you hit on her friend or she walks in on you doing it. So, don't put yourself through this.

What you should do is ignore her comment and change the subject. If she brings it up again the cut the date short and leave. You can say we'll I do got to go. I do have yonhelp my friend pickup some equipment and I don't want to be late. If it's late at night you can say. I do got to leave and get ready for work. I picked up a overtime shift at night.

***Note: never tell a girls your work schedule, or share too much of your life on the first or 10th date. Always wait a month or so and build up to it. You got to make sure she is right for you. Remember she doing the same thing to you. Your now just beating her to game they all play. Your not the first guy and only guy she is talking too especially if you met her on a dating app. All dating apps are free for women and guys always have to foot the $$ for th app and dates. Always remember this, no matter how you look at this when you got to pay for stuff/date it is a form of pay for sex. It's not free and these women make you work for it. Now you learn what they do and reverse it on her. Key of advice, if you want to know more about them read what the read like cosmopolitan, go to sites they visit & the big on sign in to a app as a girl and see what guys are saying and wanting. Remember women are always searching for a false reality it starts with looks first, then they look at your job to see how much your willing to pay for a date, your hight which they really don't know hight, them pictures, then they search for you social media, then they read your profile last. It's all a game. Once you figure out this then you beat them at it.

Good luck on this.

[Grond21]

It might be opening up to the guy

[NathanDavis]

this is usually why I do not go out with someone... till I first know better about them... and I do take my time to get to know them better

to avoid situations like this... lol

however, this is a common feeling with many people, we all have insecurities... of some sort, and well, if she is opening up now and this way... I am going to listen, for sure...

and so my follow up reply would be one... "how so?" and then we'll just talk about it and then see how it goes

[RealMarek]

1. I don’t know. 2. I would ask “Why?”