Hmm... when I was young I was completely hopeless at reading a room xD better now... ish.
But I think women are socialised into having to think about other people's feelings more.
Men are told 'don't be sensitive it's not manly'. Women are told 'think of others first'. It has benefits and disadvantages for both sexs. Eg: Often Men struggle to discuss their feelings with others. And women struggle to tell shit people to sod off.
But like everything, practice makes perfect. It's good to have strong boundaries. But it's also good to pay attention to other people feelings and be able to discuss our own. Otherwise, relationships are harder than they need to be.
Also remember, women talk. We talk a lot... so if someone tells us A was cheating on B with C and the signs were XYZ... you can guarantee we'll look for the patterns in other relationships in future. And see the signs before others might.
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Anonymous
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Because guys are so intune logically while women are logically handicapped. It's just the way the genders are.
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Anonymous
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Just because most men aren't controlled by their emotions doesn't mean we don't feel/understand them.
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I understand them but there emotions are crazy they can suss things before they happen. We men are better just letting women do what there gonna do lol
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Hmm... when I was young I was completely hopeless at reading a room xD better now... ish.
But I think women are socialised into having to think about other people's feelings more.
Men are told 'don't be sensitive it's not manly'. Women are told 'think of others first'. It has benefits and disadvantages for both sexs. Eg: Often Men struggle to discuss their feelings with others. And women struggle to tell shit people to sod off.
But like everything, practice makes perfect. It's good to have strong boundaries. But it's also good to pay attention to other people feelings and be able to discuss our own. Otherwise, relationships are harder than they need to be.
Also remember, women talk. We talk a lot... so if someone tells us A was cheating on B with C and the signs were XYZ... you can guarantee we'll look for the patterns in other relationships in future. And see the signs before others might.
Because guys are so intune logically while women are logically handicapped. It's just the way the genders are.
Just because most men aren't controlled by their emotions doesn't mean we don't feel/understand them.
I understand them but there emotions are crazy they can suss things before they happen.
We men are better just letting women do what there gonna do lol