Do guys like soft spoken women?

[s_lynn22]

All my life I’ve always been told how soft my voice is. Mostly this comment came from women. But I’ve always wondered from a guy’s perspective if y’all prefer a loud woman, or a woman that has a soft, feminine voice.

[Anonymous]

I like women who act like women, which is to say, a nurturer. We don't give a damn how many degrees you have, how many people you beat up, how much taekwondo you do. Ironically, the most respectful woman I've ever met was the manager of an apartment building. She treated everyone with courtesy. Her background? A Notre Dame grad and 8 years in the Marines. Literally every female I've ever met who tries to impress me with her badassery and tough girl tude doesn't have 1/10th of her resume, and that's a fact. We don't like someone with an identity crisis.

[modeunae]

I prefer a soft, feminine voice and I think most men do. There may be times to be loud, like in a crowded place, but generally-- yes. I want women with soft and feminine voices. I don't like raspy, loud voices. It's revolting.

[Anonymous]

Guys tell me I'm too loud and women tell me I'm too quiet. This isn't really an answer to your question, it just occurred to me that I have no idea what volume my voice actually is. I guess I could take that as men preferring soft spoken women, since they're generally more likely to complain about my volume.

[bobalife]

I’d think some to most do from my knowledge? Every guy I’ve gotten to know romantically or went on a date always love my soft spoken voice. Women seemed to love my voice too lol. Now I think it’s almost everyone I’ve come across as I’m writing this out loud tbh lol.

[coachTanthony]

I think we love soft spoken women. Nobody likes a loud woman or man for that matter.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Not very much but I don't mean I like loud women either (that's even worse). I like women with a firm but inquisitive voice, able to balance ladylike courtesy with a degree of modest confidence. Picture the classy and well-educated woman at a formal party able to hold more than small talk or the voice of a respected but very open-minded professor. It's not so soft that I feel as though she's speaking to me with a motherly tone, but it's not loud either. It's firm and courteous.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Take Sigourney Weaver as an example. I love her vocal quality. It's a bit deeper but still very feminine and it communicates to me an inquisitive mind, sophistication, class, maturity, and she can become very assertive and outspoken but only when she's clearly in the right and everyone else is so wrong (ex: her passionate speech in Aliens to try to persuade people to take the xenomorph threat very seriously). You can picture her with her voice having the most intelligent conversations at a formal party while fluently navigating through the crowd.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

She's also capable of switching to a soft-spoken voice when she's speaking to children which is a bonus (maternal skills) but her default voice towards adults isn't so soft-spoken.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Coming back to this and reading through other people's thoughts here, I might be a bit unusual but I don't conceive of the ideal woman as one who is "most feminine". She would instead have a mixture of what we might traditionally call both "masculine" and "feminine".

For example, if we associate being soft-spoken, agreeable, and nurturing with "feminine", then a woman who is always so soft-spoken and agreeable and nurturing doesn't seem to me like an ideal mother since she might spoil and fail to discipline her children. Instead I think the ideal mother is one who knows when to be soft-spoken and when to be firm and possibly even the most extreme cases where it's productive to be loud, when to be more agreeable and when to be more assertive, etc.

Same for what I conceive to be the ideal father: he would be able to switch between "masculine" and "feminine" as appropriate for the situation like a military leader who might normally be quite assertive and firm in his voice to encourage discipline, but makes exceptions when a soldier is demoralized and down and show a rare but very sensitive, soft-spoken side of him, telling him softly that he too is afraid to show empathy but then encouraging him with a firm hand to get back on his feet to boost the soldier's morale and fill him with courage.

Any ideal human being as I see it balances feminine and masculine this way. So a woman who is always soft-spoken is one I consider a bit too imbalanced.

[JacobJordan]

No one likes loud women. Why do you think there are so many videos of loud, argumentative, toxic women whining about how they can't find a man. You don't see videos of soft women because they don't have anything to complain about because they are likely married and happy. Femininity vs masculinity. Women keep acting like guys then wonder why guys don't want them meanwhile feminine women get married quick and remain married and happily.

[Anonymous]

I know I do. It’s extremely attractive. As I was growing up I always liked Joey Lauren Adams voice. Not only was she cute, especially in Dazed and Confused but I loved her voice. Two things that drive me crazy besides a girl’s physical sexual appeal, her voice and braces.

[lark38]

i grew upwith ASMR without even knowing anything about it. So i've always loved to hear a softly spoken women's voice. For year's i thought i had something other's didn't have. Personally a softly spoken ladies voice is on of the most beautiful sounds i have ever heard up to this very moment. l hope this comment somehow helps you.

[Noswar78]

This is a difficult question. There is no right or wrong answer here, we are all different and so a soft voice will be desirable to some, and not others.

For me, i never like to be with the loudest person in the room. I do not crave attention, so for me, a softly spoken lady is more attractive than a loud lady

[MathGuy12]

I definitely prefer a woman with a soft voice than a woman with a loud voice. Then again this is coming from a mathematician, loyal, honest, surprise her with flowers, monogamous, nice guy kind of person. Other men might have a different preference

[Lynx122]

It depends if you're too shy and anxious and you always wanna melt into the background it's not that attractive. But a woman that let's me have peace and quiet definitely is XD

[HawkPerception]

I like soft spoken women, but I think what I'm attracted to the most is confidence. Feminine and classy.

[Lliam]

Soft is sexy and feminine as long as it's not an affect. I prefer that, but not too soft. She should be capable of speaking up.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Guys prefer a soft woman.

If they treat her wrong, she learns that she needs to be loud in order to be heard.

[abc3643]

YES. Men like class and being softspoken is part of being classy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Normal woman voice is what I prefer.

Soft voice I can barely understand what's being said and loud is just annoying.

[Joshydavid25]

I wouldn't turn down a soft spoken woman.. But I do prefer a woman with somewhere in-between..

[MemeSupreme]

what is an example of that lol like ik what it means but i can't think of one

[Elena_Stewart]

I don't think guys like quiet or non talkative girls. I am a soft spoken person. Two guys who liked me told me you're cute but too quiet.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I speak softly but that's because I'm shy and have anxiety. I can be loud though sometimes.

[Infinity_Soup]

Best of both worlds lma

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@Infinity_Soup Antidepressant does work. lol So it's not all bad since I can speak up without feeling so anxious.

[Infinity_Soup]

That's great! You should look into aschwaganda and nutritional yeast as well

[KittygosMeoWW]

They like a woman that is soft with them and only them

[bowenw]

I like most female voices, but if I was forced to choose, my vote would be for a soft feminine voice.

[Tim2nice]

I could do with one right now. My current wife is too loud and aggressive

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, I like soft-spoken women. Awe so sweet !!!

[DarkWinterNights]

Definitely, I’ve been totally turned off to women who were too loud or aggressive.

[Raaj4you]

I am a soft spoken person, I love soft spoken sweet girls and women. I hate it when women are loud, rude and aggressive.

[ODC2112]

I have Asperger's syndrome; therefore, I cannot get them.

[DextroShade]

We definitely prefer soft-spoken women over loud, annoying women.

[Jamie05rhs]

I have hearing loss, so I might say "what?" a lot. But otherwise I think y'all are awesome.

[Shiningtempest]

I prefer a woman that has a soft, feminine voice because I find it calming.

[HotGymBoyfriend]

I love a soft-spoken, feminine woman. It’s also calming and nurturing for me to listen to a soft-spoken woman.

[Anonymous]

Trust me, nothing's annoying as loud women and nothing's cuter than soft spoken women !

[dolemite58]

I like a soft feminine voice, I just don’t like girls with a high squeaky voice

[Kingofkings1992]

They beat loud and obnoxious women any day of the week

[Zestyassmf1997]

Depends on the guy. I personally don’t.

[laly520]

I guess they do

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah, soft voices are nice to listen to.

[HouseMoat]

Different guys, like different things hun

[Guido]

Soft spoken is much preferred over a loud woman.

[Roudyrebel8]

Soft voice is nice

[Anonymous]

That's 1000x better than a loud chick!

[TiaNour]

They better

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