Why do women sit in a mans lap?

[ManyFantasiGuy]

Be it in any direction or form, why do women sit on guys lap?

Do you want to? or do it because he asks it.

Would you rather prefer not to sit on his lap?

[Finchie40]

Because she feels safe and protected in his arms , she feels comfortable with him and likes being close to him , whether he is just a friend to her or more , she feels safe , sometimes girls sit on guys laps because she is letting other guys’ know she isn’t interested in them , and pretty much telling those other guys’ to back off of her , at times I had random girls’ sit on my lap and I was thinking WTF is she doing , if I was attracted to her , I would be like ok sit on my lap all you want thinking I got your back , to find out she was trying to escape other guys’ that were not leaving her alone. So if you are showing interest in a girl and she goes and sits on another guy’s lap , she is pretty much letting you know she isn’t interested in you and to please leave her alone , some girls ‘ can’t handle being hit on , if she thinks your creepy and coming on to strong she will run to another guy to protect her , sometimes she runs to a random guy that she is attracted to and tells him do you mind if I sit on your lap so this creepy guy leaves me alone lol Just the way girls’ are

[CozyCoffin]

She's demonstrating that she's comfortable with him and also provides intimacy. It may lead to sex as it can be used as an erotic action, demonstrated by strip clubs ( although that doesn't).

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I think it’s an equipment test & the last woman that sat on my lap I pitched a tent instantly.

[Fuentes]

Has to be lol

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@Fuentes It totally is & I went to a strip club & one of the strippers asked if I wanted a lap dance & I said absolutely & we can talk about the first thing that pops up too.

[msmissydc]

So my opinion kinda changed on it.
As a teen I did it mainly because if we sat outside without chairs the floor is cold and their jeans or pants probably warms better than whatever I was wearing. I was comfortable around those guys but on a friendly level.

Today it is different and thinking back i was naive as f...
Its something I would not do with any guy who is neither my partner nor someone who I know 100% isn't taking it the wrong way as long as they ask and it makes sense in the situation.

[catsmemoir]

Incredibly naive. I can guarantee those guys took that as a sign you wanted to F. And when you didn't probably just dismissed you as a tease

[YouSloppyLady]

oh yeah no idea what you were doing! my god the dishonesty what a tool.

[catsmemoir]

@YouSloppyLady Lol right?

[msmissydc]

So what you are saying is, that every girl should know instinctevily that the lap is a sexual spot before she even knows about sex? In addition to that the last lap she sat in was probably her dads. So where would that connotation even come from? I understand later once sex is understood, thats why it did change. But if you sexualise teen girls sitting in laps thats kinda on you.

[YouSloppyLady]

Yeah, uh huh. We're buying it, you were how old and you didn't know the difference between boys and girls? right.

alright man maybe you were a dork in school but I had girls sit on my lap and directly flirt with me, its pretty overt flirtatious behavior even in younger years, jesus especially younger years, I had kids in my years with boyfriends/girlfriends in the 1 grade. They knew, what are you even talking about you creepy fuck

[msmissydc]

Creepy fuck back right at you. If you think first graders know the difference between sitting in her dads lap and in a random boys lap than your perception of children and sex is super fucked up. Red flags all around! WTH!!!

[LemonJuicee]

Thank you for calling out this creepy, no life havin' mf lmao

[WhitneySnow]

To be flirty. I personally would never sit on a guy’s lap unless we had been dating a while and I wanted to do that.

[catsmemoir]

If other women are around it's usually a way for them to "claim" a guy. Marking their territory so to speak

[ManyFantasiGuy]

I think quite the opposite, a guy may send a message that way but can't be said same other way around.

[LemonJuicee]

It feels nice and warm

He gets hard

You can feel his boner

Why wouldn't a girl wanna sit on the lap of a guy she likes?

[YouSloppyLady]

seriously, women are just as horny and gross as men.

[LemonJuicee]

@YouSloppyLady What lmao

[LemonJuicee]

@YouSloppyLady Yeah but, I meant with a guy you're dating or your husband

Not a random dude lol

[YouSloppyLady]

sure slob. I believe you, you're completely different than every other girl on this website. God and I really wanted to see the good in people. Not anymore you're all garbage. Literally I've never read more dehumanizing disgusting shit in my life. Telling people they should kill themselves and that theyre worthless. there's the empathy women are famous for, its no wonder you're all now famous for being disgusting. A young girl your age coming here, already so depraved and sick in the head. telling people to kill themselves, fucking monsters. Good god look at what you whores have done with you "sexual liberation"! Some of you even admit you regret it but all like it at the same time too, you get off on it. I want to vomit. Im shocked. Seriously fuck you

[LemonJuicee]

@YouSloppyLady Oh

[SoLongPeople]

Do you even have anything to say to that? Are you really that blind that you dont see how callous and ridiculous this place is? Are you all really that sick? That every other thread is about how base you can be and how much you can dehumanize other people who are at the end of their ropes? what the fuck is your defense for all of this. How do you all carry on with that cruelty. What do lonely people even do to deserve all of it. I really dont know how ill reconcile this. Why should I ever look at "the fairer sex" the same knowing how dark your psychology is, how you look at others. Why do you spite random people for nothing. SHOULD I FUCKING JOIN YOU? IS THAT ALL THERE IS?

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

A woman will sit on your lap, and they will talk about the first thing that comes between them

[Zestyassmf1997]

Because they feel like it, and I guess it’s comforting for them.

[Unit1]

Shiiieeet. It never happened to me, so I can't say 🤷‍♀️

[Pohjolan]

If something starts to poke her she knows that the guy is interested.

[Anonymous]

They want to feel the D get stiff under their buttcheeks!

[Apple1996]

Because mens laps are comfy

[Fuentes]

She a hoe that's why

[Apple1996]

I'm a hoe then 🙃

[Fuentes]

@Apple1996 ofc u are lol

[LaurenM1997]

She might wanna give her man a hug

[NYlatefun]

Well that pic is not his lap is his D 😂

[Iron_Man]

They like to bond

[Likes2drive]

For affection probably