Why some white guys give a scary stare at me?

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure if they're aware what they doing. The way they looked at me as if full of judgment, and despise at me lol. I'm Asian girl, I felt guilty and insecure for no reason. Funny thing, they stared at me too long!!! 😭 and their face looked so fierce when they stare at me!!! At the same time, they were good looking. Lmao

[laly520]

not necessarily the stare was evil
it could be cuz of u n u see it as scary since u r insecure or feels unsafe around em which made ur mind receive it as a scary stare

[Youdontknowme50]

Yeah but her concerns are very valid. There's a lot of creepy serial killers here and the United States and there's some crazy racist people that will stare down someone before they attack them. I used to be in the US Army as an Asian American female and a lot of them would stare me down before they attacked me. The OP it has a genuine concern and her concerns are valid. You shouldn't invalidate them by dismissing what she feels. These males she's describing are very racist and prejudice. They were staring at her to intimidate her and make it known they did not like her. If they liked her they wouldn't give her a "fierce" angry staredown.

[Soldieronmission1]

Why would you feel guilty about them looking at you? A fierce look is an interesting description. I'm sure some aren't thinking good things while others think your really pretty.

[Soldieronmission1]

Awe shucks

[Youdontknowme50]

What she meant was she was giving hateful angry glares and stares. It's a very uncomfortable hateful stare it's not a pleasant look that she's complaining about. There's a difference between glaring someone and giving them a fierce angry look like you want to kill them versus someone that just stares politely in a nice way. They were doing that to her because they're very racist and prejudice and they wanted to intimidate her and let her know they didn't like her.

[Youdontknowme50]

I meant to type she was GIVEN and NOT "giving." These men that were glaring at her and staring her down were the ones giving her the dirty racist stares that she described as "fierce."

[Soldieronmission1]

I know what she meant but thanks for trying to clarify or whatever you're doing. Yes I know people give ugly, hateful and even villinoy stares. I've mostly dated ethic women and sadly see racism happen far too often.

[DryGermanGuy]

Don’t overthink it, pleeez. 🙄 You are a girl, they are guys ogling you, end of story.

[Youdontknowme50]

She's not overthinking it. She's complaining that they're glaring at her and staring her down which is making her feel uncomfortable. Just because you didn't experience it doesn't mean it didn't happen to her. Grow up and get educated. You're very ignorant.

[swettannie]

they maybe wanted to do bad things to you? ahah

[Asker]

Lmao 🤣 I doubt that

[swettannie]

why that

[Avicenna]

They were probably just checking you out

[Youdontknowme50]

Yeah they were checking her out and glaring at her and giving her nasty hateful looks because they're racist.

[Danny_dan92]

Ask.