I was bullied my entire life. Did not have a single friend growing up. Obviously the person who never had a friend is not going to grow up normal.
Women were always creeped out by me. But at the strip club the strippers were so nice to me. They would give me extra dances for free. They would hook me up with a free drink or would even invite me out to the back where they would have their smoke breaks.
I had strippers kiss me a number of times. At first I was grossed out but now I know they don't kiss every guy. I was the only one getting any kisses.
I wonder why those strippers did this for me. I went to clubs across the US (traveling due to military.)
I just wonder why they were so sweet to me. Why me being the shy weirdo was something they liked about me when most other women are repulsed by my shyness.
Women were always creeped out by me. But at the strip club the strippers were so nice to me. They would give me extra dances for free. They would hook me up with a free drink or would even invite me out to the back where they would have their smoke breaks.
I had strippers kiss me a number of times. At first I was grossed out but now I know they don't kiss every guy. I was the only one getting any kisses.
I wonder why those strippers did this for me. I went to clubs across the US (traveling due to military.)
I just wonder why they were so sweet to me. Why me being the shy weirdo was something they liked about me when most other women are repulsed by my shyness.
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I used to be a dancer (stripper) and I can tell you now it was all monetary. They sense you’re an easy regular and they’re trying to get you addicted. No it was not out of the kindness of their heart or because they like doing it, most strippers do not like stripping.
I’ll tell you a similar story, an older white male came into the club once. I had no idea who he is but I was told he’s a big spender. As he sat, he was surrounded by 4 of our top girls. One above, 2 on the side, and 1 below sitting. I’m sure he felt like a king at that time. But this treatment was because he spent so much money, not because they felt bad. Every other loser in there got to sit and wait for one woman to walk by. If he started throwing money or giving one girl a lot of attention, well, he becomes a king too.
But I didn't spend money. I didn't do anything extra. Only I received extras.
I know it sounds like I'm yet another naive man who doesn't understand but I understood ever since 3rd grade when a girl pretended to ask me out so that the whole class could laugh at me, that women are not to be trusted.
They gave me things for free for no reason. They weren't trying to manipulate money out of me.
I see how they work. They try to get the money and when a guy doesn't give it up they go to someone else. They flit about like humming birds trying to get men to spend money.
They did not treat me the same whatsoever.
I guess it's just too unbelievable so nobody is going to believe me.
There is a sucker born every minute, and they must have seen right through you.
What did they get from me if they were the ones giving me things and I didn't give them anything?
strippers dont give anything for free
its rules