Be honest one thing getting called younger but when someone says “she looks like a kid” and she’s in her late 20s is that a turn off?

[Anonymous]

Like I get there are woman who look younger but another thing looking like a kid 🧒 just there is a girl she about to be 28 and looks like a kid or teenager supposedly and she’s very petite is that weird on the other hand or that’s a turn on A lot of coworkers especially man keep mentioning how she looks like a kid/teenager I personally think she looks like 21 she’s just very short and small but they say it’s something about her face I don't know

[provokeesmokee]

in my opinion, yes. But sometimes people really do have baby face.

I still think its cringey if people - especially of the opposite gender - infantilise someone who is shorter or has babyfaced features that they KNOW are adults.

That's, like, high school behaviour. From 20 year olds, that just makes the person infantilising look cringe.

[Jessica405]

Happened to me all the time up to age 26ish. My old school uniform still a perfect fit. I look 14 or 15. I nearly lost my partner when I tried it on for him. Kept getting ID'd when buying wine.

[Asker]

Is it a turn off?

[Jessica405]

He felt like he was living with a school kid. As for me, I always felt embarrassed being ID'd.

[Asker]

Ohhh well but has it affected you in a way as well? Like in life

[Asker]

Like have people looked and acted some way towards you or

[Jessica405]

I used to get some strange looks. I am just over 5' tall. My guy is 6' 1".