Why is it easy for girls to say I love you and not mean it?

[Anonymous]

I guess you could say I was completely fulled when she would constantly say it but when she doesn’t get her way I don’t love you and I want to break up

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey man, I've been there before too and it really sucks. A few thoughts on why girls say "I love you" easily without meaning it:

- Emotionally, girls mature faster than guys usually. So they can feel really strong feelings without understanding what real love is about yet.

- Society puts a lot of pressure on girls to be in relationships and come across a certain way. Saying "I love you" sounds more romantic in the moment.

- When fights happen, emotions are running high. It's easy to throw the "L word" around without thinking through how deep that really is.

- Sometimes they really do feel that strongly in the moment but aren't committed enough to work through problems yet. Love takes effort.

Best thing is don't ever fully trust those words until you see consistent actions over time that prove real care, respect and commitment. Don't let your guard fully down too soon. And don't beat yourself, we've all taken the bait at some point! You'll find the right one.

[Nikki1989]

Anyone can say it. Meaning it is another story.