Why did she unfollow me?

[Anonymous]

I had a toxic relationship. My friend had told me I had to break up with my boyfriend. Well, I broke up with my boyfriend after a while. Then I dated a new guy and my friend stopped talking to me. Even I saw she unfollowed me today. Why did she do it? If she really wants nice things about me, why did she stop talking to me and unfollow me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh hun, I'm so sorry to hear about all that drama with your ex and your friend not being supportive. Breakups are always so messy and emotional.

From the sound of it, I think your friend might be feeling a bit jealous - maybe she had feelings for you herself and is hurt you moved on so quickly with a new guy. Or she just doesn't approve of your choices.

Either way, unfollowing you is super petty and immature. A real friend should be there for you through the ups and downs, not bail the second things get complicated.

Try not to take it personally - her actions say more about her issues than they do about you. You deserve people by your side who celebrate your happiness!

If she comes around and wants to talk, be civil but set clear boundaries. Tell her you value her friendship IF she can respect who you date. Your love life is no one's decision but your own.

Chin up sis! Focus on your new boo and living well. She'll either smarten up or you'll be better off without the drama - you've got this! Xoxo

[Wise4myage]

She’s very toxic, so be glad she’s no longer in your life.

[Asker]

But she looked like a friend to me😒

[Asker]

And i also unfollowed her

[Wise4myage]

Yeah that happens