Girl let’s me touch her inner thigh and have a squeeze of her bum but doesn’t make a move does she like me?

[Anonymous]

A girl I like told me a couple of years ago she wasn’t in the right place to have a relationship, I took this as she didn’t like me, we stayed friends and met up a couple of times a year. About 3 months ago she moved to my town and in the last month have been meeting every weekend all day, go for lunch & dinner, shows, walks, watch Netflix etc but don’t stay over and nothing sexual has happend yet. I noticed as we walked she kept bumping into me accidentally and would then say sorry ( I don’t know if this subconscious bumping it didn’t seem deliberate but keeps happening). A couple of weekends ago I escalated by touching her leg and small of her back and she did not move away, I followed this by touching her thigh, giving her bum a squeeze for a few minutes (5mins) when sitting next to her and when my hand was over a blanket rubbing her inner thigh/groin quite high (I could touch her bum with my fingers), she did not move but sat quite still (5mins) - we were watching Netflix, I asked her questions about the series and she answered and did not move me away. When the show finished she got up grabbed water then sat down again, I then rubbed her back. I did not get a look from her she kept watching the series, but did look to see her reaction i think it was a look of surprise. When I left to go home I gave her a deep hug and squeezed her bum, gave her a sod kiss on the cheek. I did say tomorrow I’ll give you a leg massage and she said “sure” meaning no, I said don’t you want one and she said no. I am seeing her again today she wants me help her build a ikea flat pack. I would have made a move or asked apart fro the previous two years ago I don’t want a relationship, also she had told me she fancied me two years ago prior to the im not ready for a relationship and when I had pushed her to explain she said she clearly doesn’t fancy me enough, this is why I am not sure if she like me or not, help please?

[SueShe]

No, she does not like you because if she did, she would have reacted to your sexual advances. I must say that I am a little disappointed in you for attempting to get into her pants. I am aware that you guys have only that kind of ideas when you meet girls.

The fact that she did not respond to your sexual advances is a good sign that she is not interested in letting this go any further.

Take it as a sign that she wants to remain platonic friends with you and just refrain from trying to get into her pants. That way, you show that you are a gentleman and that you can be with a woman without always thinking of sex.

[Anonymous]

Good Grief!

[Anonymous]

she prob doesn’t want to be serious with you, and maybe just be friends with benefits. It’s hard to say though, because she might not even like your sexual advances. Maybe she’s just scared to reject them. Try giving her a real kiss when the times right. That’ll tell you all you need to know. If she gets into it and starts moaning, it’s a green light. If she doesn’t seem into it, stop.

[meepmeeperton]

She probably wants you to be the one to make the move.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, but don’t disrespect her making sexual advances

[Asker]

What should I do next then? If you don’t make a move how do you know

[Opinion Owner]

You get married first