Girls do you agree on this?

[Anonymous]

there's a younger girl about 24 who has been giving me signs that she is attracted to me. Staring at me and smiling etc etc. Its been happening for a while now. I am mairred with kids. I was told by her friends she has daddy issues. I have been ignoring her completly to as not to send the wrong message. Now she has been looking to get closer as a friend to my son and daughter. They hang out and do things together. I have been told that she is doing this to be around me even more. Do you agree? Thanks for reading.

[Anonymous]

Yes, that sounds likely true. Daddy and daughter issues cause a lot of problems unfortunately. They cause girls to grow up feeling unloved, like they're not enough and sometimes extreme attention seekers. They will seek for a lot of attention as they never grew up feeling that attention from their dads. They'll often go to extreme lengths for the attention as well, which isn't good, but they do it out of past problems. That's why, girls that grow up with dad problems if you notice are usually the girls that end up doing a lot more. Letting any guy have them, just doing whatever. Not because they're a bad person, but because they crave love they never felt growing up. Girls, need dads who will be there for her, emotionally and physically. A dad that is always telling his daughter good about her, encouraging her, spending one on one time with her, being there for her to talk about feelings (even if guys don't like to talk about feelings), helping her make the right decisions to prevent her pain, even if she doesn't like it. So, she likely grew up without all that in love and attention and is into seeking attention or just wants love. She might find you attractive and therefore, it might make it hard for her to try not to get your attention. Girls, if they see a guy they like, it can be hard for them to control their feelings for him, especially if, like I said, she had problems with her dad growing up. So, she may not even be intentionally trying to get your attention, but subconsciously is, as she finds you attractive. Her getting closer to your children though, that could be intentional, I'm not sure. But it is best to talk to her, by letting her know your boundaries, if your not wanting her to keep seeking your attention, tell her. She should know your boundaries and where you stand when it comes to her trying to get your attention.

[Changiis07]

Could be true but she should stop hanging out with your kids then, it can cause trouble in your relationship with your wife.