Do you think all girls/women are manipulative in their nature?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not all, just a majority.

I mean let's be real. EVERYONE has motives when it comes to relationships. But what separates the two is when someone actively PLOTS. When they're working moves ahead to elicit a response out of someone. And I'm sorry to say, that's a majority of women anymore.

If you don't believe me read a majority of the questions from women on this site and you'll see they say "how do I get a guy to...". And I always respond. You don't! You provide him the best opportunity for that to happen with him. And if he doesn't you move on to man that WANTS to do that. Most women don't want to hear that though. You cannot WILL something you want into being. And to try is just toxic. And I get it. It's hard to tell sometimes when enough is enough. Especially when someone gives you conflicting messages. I always tell people, (women or men) that they should use this rule of thumb. Do they make youu feel better or worse the majority of the time you're with them. If it's worse it's NOT a healthy relationship.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

The question: “Do you think all girls/women are manipulative in their nature?”

My response: No, women and girls alike are not manipulative in their nature. There are some people who happen to have characteristics of gender, religious beliefs, outward appearance, etc. however doesn’t mean they are manipulative. I see manipulation tactics, deceitful practices, dishonest work as individual character to achieve their own selfish ends. Doesn’t matter gender, everyone has the capacity of being like that however the majority of humans aren’t like this 100% sure on that.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

No more so than for males. It's toxic and untrue to put such negative labels an males and females. Not that you're doing that, you may just be asking a question. A lot of people on here say stuff like that though. Anyone who says "men are bad by nature" or "women are bad by nature" is a loser who had a failed upbringing.

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Yes. I see it since they are little…  the difference… how do they use that as their leverage… most don’t… very few knows it well and use it to their advantage… so Becareful.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all… But many are they’re called narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths, and dark empaths.

A lot of women have better self control and are better at pretending to be someone they’re not ON AVERAGE…. There are women who aren’t good at it and men who are.

I think people become manipulative because they project their own dark nature on other people. They feel as if everyone’s out to get them and they need to get you before you can get them. Other times people have a sick thrill of taking advantage of a good person. But trust me…. Karma always comes back on them and they reap what they sow.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No and That's gaslighting your own gender. Manipulative could easily be a descriptor like independent, cunning, strategic, collegial, etc.

Often the exact same behaviors in men are labeled negatively in women especially in the workplace. Dont fall for it.

BetaBucks · Answer

Yes. Women developed manipulation along with men developing strength. Nearly all females are better at manipulation while nearly all men are stronger. Comparing to age and disability status, obviously.

Drewtate · Answer

Absolutely. I've found myself tricked into doing things my a girlfriend who manipulated me with her breasts.

Pegases · Answer

I think all people are manipulative in their nature. But I think women have to be manipulative because it equals the playing field in a male dominated world. For example, women use their sexuality to get what they want from men all the time.

strangeatcircleK · Answer

I think we all fall into social norms. I know my brother said, if a girl knows you like her it turns her off but if you play hard to get it peaks her interest

I feel like both genders have moments of stuff like that

Dongie · Answer

Actually I do. Not to be harsh or cruel. I think it's a way of making up for physical weakness compared to men in most cases. Some over use it for great personal gain while others do so for the betterment of a relationship. Kinda good and evil forms.

just_a_potato · Answer

I'm only manipulative when I have to be, and that's when I want a raise loool

RavVid · Answer

Yes. There are good evolutionary reasons for this.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Yeah they are, it is second nature to them, a bit like lying. They just cannot seem to resist it. However there is no excuse.

patois · Answer

I wouldn't say they are good at controlling people. It's more so that they lack integrity.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, that is a go-to line that bitter men use that have failed at relationships.

noohair · Answer

Yes, and that comes from not being physically able to force someone to do things. This is all caveman behavior.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I used to think that as a child. Now I think that sex isn't a factor as to what makes people manipulative.

standardguy · Answer

Well, that would be a sexist statement if I say all women ate so. But women can be manipulative more easily than men.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Survival insctints.. Guys are also jerks. so sometimes girls don't have option..  I know because even I am one.. lol

Billlewis · Answer

No, but I wish more of them were.

Alli112 · Answer

Nope. Not even most.

DishLady · Answer

Nope. See what @drpepper12 said...

4ngelic · Answer

not more than men

slatyb · Answer

No more than all men are.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Some probably are but definitely not all.

OddBeMe · Answer

No more than men. We just don’t talk as much

Twalli · Answer

No, some are extremely manipulative though

Taurus06 · Answer

I think it’s taught to us.

MemeSupreme · Answer

humans are lol

Deserter2 · Answer

Yes, they evolved to be cause physically weak

HelpfulWoman · Answer

easy no.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Yeah. Pretty much.

jahaims · Answer

Nope.

Starrrboy · Answer

Lowkey yes..

Jennz6 · Answer

We can be

MrGSpotHer · Answer

No I don't

woahhh152 · Answer

Most of them yes

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