Girls’ how do you impress a guy? what do you do to impress him?

[Finchie40]

How do you impress him, what makes you think that you are the girl for him? What do you see in him that makes you want him?

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Now Listen Guys’ this is some serious shit

[Mwolf]

As cheesy as it sounds, just being myself. I'm a through and through a tomboy, so I think that kinda starts the initial "attraction". That, my personality type, and MBTI cognitive functions (INTJ) make me stick out like a sore thumb. Due to sharing the same interests: shooting guns, archery, paintball, four wheeling, being competitive, video games, to even wearing same attire: ripped jeans & black hoodie sweatshirt (not stiletto heels and Barbie pink), liking gruesome stuff (my interests are living proof of not being your typical "lady"🤣). Ex. for fun, researching Ted Bundy inside and out, I probably know him and Dahmer better than they know themselves. I'm not easily grossed out (the more gory a movie is the better), dislike drama♀️👑, I'm not easily offended, and don't I hesitate/tolerate on calling out others' bullshit: narcissists, hypocrites, prideful/arrogant/show offs, dishonesty, and any types of manipulation (where as many women are to scared, shy, or whatever to make a peep).🙄 Plus that I'm: fiercely independent, straightforward, novel, a bit of a spitfire, have dark sarcastic sense of humor, love a good theoretical debate/discussion. What attracted my boyfriend and had him pursue me and ask me to be in a relationship. Our relationship thrives on insulting each other, sarcasm, and shared interests (crime Jack the Ripper) & hobbies (gun shooting).😆

[Finchie40]

LOL that’s awesome, you sound like you would be a great girlfriend for a guy , with having a lot of the same interests in things. Having a lot in common in a relationship is a great thing , usually couples that don’t have a lot in common tend to butt heads and disagree on a lot of things which can lead to the both of them splitting up. When I meet a girl that has similar interests we tend to have better time doing things together and enjoying doing things together.. I have experienced both and my experiences with a girl that had more in common with me was better over a girl pretending to like the things I liked. My ex and I split mainly because of that reason , we don’t have much in common with each other , she pretended to like the things I liked in the beginning but as time went on her true colors shined thinking she could change who I am as a person. I told her the only person that changed was you , I am still the same guy you met from the beginning , and honestly I became more maturer than the guy you first met , so sadly it’s your fault for pretending to like the things I liked. Sadly she turned on me and became very selfish , by only wanting things her way , so I said there’s’ do the door , don’t let it hit ya in the ass on the way out. Enjoy being selfish and making everything about yourself. I want a girl that wants me the same way I want her , that enjoys spending time with me and doing things together , not a girl that excludes me and treats me like a convenience. Life is too short to be with someone that treats you that way

[Mwolf]

Amen. 🎤 If they aren't right for you they aren't right for you. No one is forcing them to stay with you. There can't be anything kept private. Any relationship I'm in past or future we have to authentic and an open book with each other. It's okay for her to not share the same interests, but it's not okay for her to fake enjoying things. Like how long do people think they can keep up with faking a facade? Like you said "dont let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya."👋🏻🚪✌🏻

[cherrybloss00]

Honestly at first when I liked guys in the past I tried my hardest to be involved and learn more about their hobbies or interests so I can understand them more and impress them. but when I did that I was in a way losing a sense of myself. and I tried too hard to make them like me like I would force conversations and they weren't genuine because I was also too insecure and clingy. but now I don't try to impress them I just be myself and sometimes yes I would crack bad dad jokes or jokes in general to make the guy I like laugh (it always works surprisingly) I just learned to be my authentic self and not try to hard, if I impress them its because i'm myself and not trying hard. and it works because I end up being complimented being a "strong hard working woman" multiple times lol :)

[Finchie40]

I love honest girls’ Cheers !!

[ManInChains]

Never noticed women do anything to impress a man. Maybe they did in the 1900s but in modern day? Nah

[idonotlikeyou]

I don’t do that. Why would I try to impress someone? For what purpose? If we’re going to be a couple, it’s not about impressing each other but whether we’re compatible. Interests, opinions, movies, books... do we have anything in common? Can we talk? Can we solve problems together? Is there something between us?

So I don’t do anything like that. I’m myself. If you like me, we can see if something comes of it. If you don’t, then stay away.

[texascollegegirl]

I have the advantages and disadvantages of very good looks, so I really try to use makeup and dress to signal my intent. I can't help being blond and looking pretty-country and getting sexualized, but at least I can dress for whether I am there for academics or to attract the kinds of guys for hookups.

[Nikki1989]

I don't do anything.