Does this girl like me or is just playing around?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl met and immediately hit it off. We had a lot of meaningful conversations in person and enjoyed each other’s company. However, she had to move away to another place very far away. So we started texting. We text and FaceTime a lot, and I know she trusts me a lot by telling me a lot of personal things about herself and her family that she might not want anyone else to know. She often tells me why she feels crappy and she tells me all about her situations when she is upset. We sometimes flirt with each other such as calling each other cute and wanting to hold hands or hug etc. There is one time where she wanted me to post an image about us matching songs on Instagram. And there is also one time where she wanted me to post her photos on my Instagram. However, when I post the Instagram, she doesn’t seem like she wants to repost and let her friends know. She also wanted me to tell my friends about her and she seems very eager to know what my friends think about her, but I feel like she doesn’t want to introduce me to her friends. Right now, we FaceTime almost everyday and sleep on call. How do I know if she is just flirting with me for fun or does she actually like me?

[Oliverlogan263]

hmm that's actually a tricky one bro. on the one hand it does seem like she's into you cause like you said, y'all flirt and facetime all the time which is pretty coupley behavior.

but i can see why you're not sure too, since she doesn't like repost your stuff or seem as open about you to her friends. maybe she's not really one to broadcast her personal life online? some chicks are just more private.

my advice would be try and have an honest convo with her. say how much you enjoy talking and that you were hoping you could turn this virtual connection into something more, if that's how she feels too.

see how she responds. if she gets all shy and likes the idea of making it official, i'd say her liking you is legit. but if she tries brushing it off or changing subjects, then she may just want the attention for now without the labels.

either way at least you'll have some clarity man. maybe you could suggest a weekend visit too so you're face to face, that would really tell you where you stand. keep me updated on what she says! fingers crossed for you bro.

[Anonymous]

Silly your her online secret attention toy! Your not her romantic date! Just someone she trusts to give her attention and do things she wants.

That won't affect her daily life in any way.

She wants to hear your friends like her. She wants you there for her. She does not really want you in her life or friends.

Your her online wind up toy she likes and if you get something from it great. If not we'll your a block button away. Just encase she needs a real boyfriend.