Why does she still follow me on instagram?

[Anonymous]

Curious i stopped talking to a girl that goes to my gym bit before that we use to we exchanged instagrams & along the ways of getting friendly with each other I notice she was full of games so I stopped talking to her. But I noticed she still followed me & stays on top of my stories. I’ve stopped following but I almost feel like she’s keeping tabs on me but for what? I expected what every other girl would do just unfollow and do the same back. What you you think?

[Anonymous]

You’re the one that unfollowed or whatever so you’re the one with the problem, not her. She could probably care less and casually watches your stories like she does everyone else’s because she has no issue with you. Those games were probably you having the wrong impression anyway, a girl who really likes you won’t risk messing things up by playing games.

[Asker]

Yes i unfollowed her when i noticed her playing games almost like playing hard to get.. hot and cold behavior so.

[Opinion Owner]

And that’s totally fine, but that is how YOU felt, which is why I say you were the one with the issue and unfollowed, not her. She doesn’t have a problem.

[Opinion Owner]

What if you were wrong? Like what if she wasn’t hot and cold she just wasn’t interested, but you liked her a lot and kept trying to pursue?

[Asker]

I think she would of made it clear.. by avoiding me or unfollowing me, this also brings up other gym friends telling me she stays staring at me when im not looking in the gym & I've witnessed it, the gym if full of mirrors lol even the staff have asked me if i know her because of looks she gives me. Not trying to sound delusional. Its fact

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn’t say you’re delusional at all and she probably does look at you, but I mean what else would you expect? She knows you, she’s aware of your presence under the same roof and when you’re both working out in an open floored gym, you’re going to be hyper aware of each other. Just as you don’t want to look delusional, I don’t want to look difficult or biased — I gain nothing from negating your claims. I just don’t think everything is meant to be so over-complicated, but you turn it into something more and now your friends are involved. I just believe this is all much simpler than you think, that’s all.

[Anonymous]

she's probably bored or curious