Is it normal for a girl?

[Soloalone]

A girl told me she liked me and I asked her the reason why she liked me.. she replied that she doesn't know the reasons why she likes me but I should know that she likes me and each time i keep asking for her reasons she gets upset. She aIso said that if I needed anything she'll pay for it.

But my concern is about the reasons why she likes me cuz it's weird to me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that is kinda weird that she doesn't really know the reasons why she likes you. Usually girls have specific things they notice about a guy that make them start to like him.

At the same time, sometimes with crushes feelings just kinda happen and it's hard to put your finger on exactly why. And she may not want to straight up list things about your looks or whatever if she's shy.

I wouldn't necessarily be suspicious of her, but I'd maybe keep a slight guard up just in case. Offering to pay for your stuff is a bit much too if you don't really know her well. Sounds like she's moving kinda fast.

My advice would be to take it slow with her for now. See how she acts over time before fully trusting her intentions. Keep getting to know each other in group settings at first so it doesn't get too intense one on one yet.

If after a while her reason for liking you still seems vague or she keeps doing too much too soon, that's when I'd be more skeptical. But for now just see how it plays out while protecting yourself a bit. No need to rush into anything serious with someone who can't give a real explanation for how they feel, ya know?

[Nikki1989]

If she's not comfortable sharing her reasons, it's best to let it go. Perhaps she's not sure herself or doesn't want to put words on her feelings.

[Soloalone]

Put words on her feelings how?
Everything happens for a reason... And those reasons are hidden somewhere which she doesn't wanna open up