How to tell if a guy is checking you out or is judging you?

[Anonymous]

I catch guys glancing at me a lot or will stare and then look away. Specifically at bars and I don’t wear anything provocative. I wear pretty classy clothes and I’d like to say I clean up nice. I’m asking because I hate being stared at or constantly looked at because I feel like I’m being judge. I do get a lot of compliments on my look from women by how I dress or even my makeup. So my question is, how can I tell if a man is judging me compared to just trying to get my attention?

[Summeroflove]

I understand it can feel awkward when people stare and you may not know what someone’s intentions really are. Do they have genuine interest in me? Or do they just want to have sex with me? Are they judging me? Are they just starting into space?

I will say it’s rude to just stare at someone if you want to talk to someone just go talk to them but I get sometimes people do it and not even realize it until after they been doing it.

I think facial expressions though can say a lot about why someone may be looking at you, keep in mind I can’t read minds as well as everyone’s different. Is it just a blank stare? Is it sort of a evil eye/dirty look? Or is it more smiley or flirty looking? I would say it really depends.

I mean I understand too some people may be like a train wreck they look so bad or are making such of a clown out of themselves.

I will say unless you’re bothering someone, they look angry, disgusted, or blank. Chances are they probably find you attractive and maybe don’t even realize they’re obviously staring

[molonski2]

Checking out is a form of judgement for sure , everyone presents an image.

Dont worry about it , embrace it , as it will not happen forever and a time will come when you wish it did again , keep working on your presentation and go out confident , holding you head high and working on your posture.

[Nikki1989]

Most men judge, but the checking out is not always obvious.

[Joshydavid25]

I can assure you, the only thing they would be judging is whether you would say yes or no to giving them your number..

[jahaims]

Checking out is judging. Everyone judges everything. That is how consciousness interacts with reality. Judging is just assessing your environment to survive

[Luckycharms12]

guys check you out. normally don't judge people