Guys what do you do when you like a girl?

[Anonymous]

Guys what do you do when you like a girl?

As much as I'd like for every guy out there to be direct and honest with their feelings towards a girl, most men are too shy to make the first move. I would like to hear from the guys of the bodylanguage on some of the signals you would give a girl when you are interested in her and would like her to approach. I think this will help a lot of girls on here be able to decipher your intentions.

On a side note, just because a girl doesn't make the first move, does not mean she doesn't like you. The girl most likely has no idea you are interested in her. That means you should try harder or at least be more obvious with your signals.

[Anonymous]

My focus is entirely on her when I know she is near. I'll sneak looks and end up close to her on purpose or subconsciously. I almost certainly give hot and cold signals.

[Anonymous]

I just look at her, but I'm too shy to tell her.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Tarifa]

Most likely we'll be nervous when you're around. We would want to make a good impression, but be unsure about how to take it further.

We are not very good at interpreting the signs girls send out, nor very good at making our intentions clear. That becomes easier when first contact has been made and we ask you out.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think most men are too shy, we’ve just stepped back because of what women have been telling us. Don’t approach me at the gym. Don’t hold the door open for me I can do it myself. We don’t need men we can do it on our own. Then possible accusations of sexual harassment. Being told men aren’t shit. Blasted on YouTube for simply glancing at a girl to which she slows down the video making it look like an eternity of staring at her. Plus men can’t really be honest w women. You say you want men to be honest but then get your feelings hurt. For instance. Going into an all male dominated work place, then expecting men to change their way of speaking simply for one female. Most men have to choose kinder words when speaking to women cause again they get their feelings hurt when that’s how men talk to each other all the time. So if most women want men to start approaching them more maybe they should stop all this nonsense.

[Shiprex]

Most guys have got the message that they should avoid women because they do not want to be approached. Liking them is very difficult when they behave this way.

[nl171]

I’m shy but I’ll try my best to start a conversation

[exitseven]

I used to do nothing because I was afraid.

[MannMitAntworten]

I tell her.

[LiamS95]

Pleasure her