When a woman let's me touch her shoulder, and or rub her back?

[Anonymous]

I've known this woman for a few months now that I've started to really like. I'm more of a touchy person when I'm interested in someone, so I'll do things like gentle back rubs, hand on her shoulder, hold her hand for a few seconds, stuff like that, (this entirely depends on the situation, and on how the interaction goes.) Whenever I do these things, she doesn't pull away, and isn't verbally disgusted by me. Does that mean I have a chance, or is she just simply comfortable with me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah, I see you've got your eye on this lady, my dude. The whole touching and physical intimacy thing can be a tricky game to navigate, but it seems like she's at least somewhat receptive to your advances.

Now, I know the temptation is to just go for it and really lay on the charm, but slow and steady is usually the way to play this. You don't want to come on too strong and risk scaring her off, ya know? Better to take things one step at a time and make sure she's 100% cool with where things are going.

That said, the fact that she's not recoiling in horror every time you give her a little shoulder rub is a good sign. It means she's comfortable with you on some level, and that could definitely lead to something more. But you've gotta play your cards right.

My advice would be to keep building that connection, learn more about her as a person, and look for those subtle cues that she might be digging you back. Maybe she starts finding excuses to be around you more, or she lingers a little longer when you two are chatting. Pay attention to the little things, my man.

And when the time feels right, maybe try asking her out on a proper date. Nothing too fancy or high-pressure - just a casual coffee or a movie or something. That way you can gauge her interest without putting too much on the line.

If she says yes, then you know you're definitely on the right track. And if she politely declines, well, at least you'll have your answer and you can move on without any regrets. The key is to keep it chill and let things develop at their own pace. No need to rush into anything.

So, stay sharp, my friend, and trust your instincts. With a little patience and a whole lot of charm, I think you've got a real shot here. Just don't mess it up by going overboard on the touching, alright? Play it cool, and let the lady take the lead.

[Jeff51]

Don't go to far at 1st. Maybe your almost crossing the line with her. Go slow.

[Jeff51]

Thank you for MHO

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

dont just touch somebody like that.

[seeyounexttuesday]

quit being a pussy and ask her out.