Why some girls' best friends are boys?

[Thegirl_234]

Why don't they become lovers?

[Hardon-Collider]

They don't need to become lovers because they already have a bond of pure understanding. It's a relationship where each friend is seen for who they are, without the interference of romance or desire. It's a bridge, not a house. It's a soul-to-soul connection that is complete on its own terms.

[DgBootley1]

Probably my closest and best friend is a chick for well over thirty years, ever since primary school. She is a very good looking lady and always has been, and the classic cliche “in a different scenario and I literally know I couldn’t get excited in that way to have any sexual relationship with her and vice-versa. We’ve seen every inch of each other over the years and shared all our problems. She’s married with kids and me also. Me and her will go out on our own and get absolutely smashed and roll back home at all hours. Her husband and my wife have just accepted it, yes I think there has been a bit of jealousy from our partners at various points over the years but that’s been more about us communicating and talking rather than anything sexual

[Nikki1989]

With me, we always connected over music. Not many women are into the music or knowledgeable about the music that I dig. Some educated men are, but it is rare when I meet women who are on the same level.

[jahaims]

They are usually too immature so they get their different needs met from multiple relationships. That is how the trop of nice guy best friend happens. She gets her emotional needs met from the nice guy friend and the rest from elsewhere. People who are immature can't invest fully into a romantic party so they split the duties.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Some girls have boy buds as well as gal pals.

[serious]

Maybe because there is good compatibility.

[dudeinohio]

The man hopes they do. Thats why they are friends.