Is this just a phase, or does my wife really like black men?

[Curious5743]

Lately, my wife of 25 years has been making little comments to me and our friends about how handsome she finds certain black men. Never white men, always black men. It is always subtle, but it has happened on three or four occasions in the past few months. My wife is in her mid-50’s and is very attractive. One time, we were at a resort with friends and a group of us were walking by the fitness center, and my wife commented to all of us how handsome a young black man working out was. I was kind of shocked, as she is rather conservative and never says things like this around me. Another time about two months ago, her and I were having lunch two tables away from a group of three golfers at a restaurant, and i caught my wife staring at the group and caught her smiling at them. I asked if everything was ok, and she told me, “all good, they are just so handsome”. And just last week, we were at a sports venue, and there was a very athletic black guy in the suite next to us, and I caught my wife turning to look at him quite a few times. I caught him looking at her and smiling as well. I asked her what was up, and once again she told me how handsome he was. On our drive home, my wife asked my friend’s wife if she saw the guy in the next suite and how good-looking he was in front of me. The other wife said she hadn’t noticed, and my wife said “wow, he was sooooo handsome!” And to top it off, I catch her frequently smiling at other black men or staring at them on our vacations. I asked her if she likes black men, and she always shrugs me off. My wife an I have a great sex life, but unlike the past, when we have sex, she always closes her eyes and puts her bed back. She never did that u til the past year, and now I’m wondering if she is fantasizing about those men while I’m fucking her. What do you ladies think? Just curious if other women feel the same as my wife.

[Finchie40]

What she is doing to you is disrespectful period , and something you should put your foot down to her about , because how would she feel if you were constantly checking out other girls’ while you were with her? , so your wife is clearly being up to no good , if she can do that in front of you , just think what she is doing behind your back , If your wife is in her 50’s she is probably experiencing menopause and menopause can make girls’ do messed up shit , when my ex hit menopause our marriage went down the tubes because she turned into this selfish psychotic bitch that started belittling me , criticizing me and comparing me to other men , barely any nice words came out of her mouth , she also became obsessed with a girl friend of hers that I think she is dying it out with , My wife did a complete 360 on me to the point I threw in the towel on her selfish ass and told her to get the fuck out of my life , Moving forward I am only dating younger girls’ because menopause is some fucked up shit

[Ariesman81]

Well, you got two options.

1. Drive her to the ghetto and tell her to get out.

2. Buy the biggest black dildo you can find and punish her with it.

[Abbycado]

I do not feel the same way. Might be a fetish she has or developed.

[Curious5743]

Thank you. I was thinking the same.

[Abbycado]

That is the only thing that makes any sense to me if this is something new.

[Curious5743]

lol I guess I will wait and see if it continues to happen. Hopefully it’s just a phase. But thanks for your opinion!

[Abbycado]

Yeah, no problem!

[beefcakebradybatson]

If your wife met me, she'd muse about us older black men's handsomeness. The reason she didn't marry a black man is likely the still-existing stigma re. white women and black men.

[AgentG111]

You need to get a divorce and make sure you file first and get anything and everything out and into a buddy's hands and sold off prior to a prohibited order.

Unless of course you are wanting to become less of a man.

[Anonymous]

Probably just a fetish, nothing else.

[Anonymous]

How do you both look?