Girls is it a turn off if a guy gets nervous when talking to you?

[lonelyvirgin]

If he smiles and laughs nervously but has a sense of humor would you still be mad at him for not being smooth and confident?

[Anonymous]

It sort of depends on how attracted I am to him. If he's so attractive he's making me nervous than I probably wouldn't notice, but if I was only moderately attracted to him it would hurt his game a little.

For example, I saw a guy come into my work this week and I immediately thought he was cute, but once I started talking to him it was obvious he was really intimidated by me and it kind of turned me off a bit. I guess you just want the guy to ooze confidence in general.

But on the other hand, another really cute guy came in and even though I was obviously making him nervous... I felt a little intimidated by him too and therefore I didn't mind.

It's stupid logic and very hypocritical, but it's just the honest truth for me.

[xguitarscen3girlx]

I think being shy is a really sweet and nice thing. Its not a turn off at all.I'm shy too so I think it makes things even for me so I'm less nervious around him. Only problem with two people being shy is that somtimes it makes it hard to know if you guys really like each other since your always too shy and hiding it. I love a shy guy. Now there is a point where its a bad thing, somtimes guys who lack confidence are always trying to over reassure things with themselves and you. Its OK to be shy, just once you know you have the girl and she seems interested, a little confidence wouldn't hurt.

[myty420]

yes it is. and I wish it was not because the guys that have confidence around me are always blabbing to some bitch on the phone while I'm spending my allowance on him he has no time for me and the guys that do have time for me have underlying issues I can't bring myself to accept, such as obesity, but not being his friend will make me a fat ass in the long run(as I know from experience) and is it really fair that I should settle for the fatty just because we are the same/different kind of ugly (I have an overbite and crooked teeth)?

[saragigli]

You can't get mad at someone for being nervous or embarassed!

Sure if you stammer and can't finish a single sentence

then you won't come across as a confident individual,

but nobody in the right state of mind would judge you.

It's not the person's fault and they probably don't like it either

so I personally wouldn't think too much about it.

If he's trying to be funny, making jokes, and being polite

then that's one more reason for me not to get mad.

[myty420]

i sorta lied..and it is still a turnoff...if a guy is nervous upon meeting you he has already come to the conclusion that he is not good enough for you. When a guy is nervous upon marrying someone it is a turn on because he loves himself enough to be worried about some twat taking from him. That's where it takes a woman to be in a successful marriage...

[Anonymous]

No, it makes me inquisitive, I like to be understanding.

[Anonymous]

Not at all. It's actually kinda sweet because it shows that he's attrected enough to be nervous about whether or not you like him back.

[Anonymous]

No way. It's sweet and shows he has character and personality. I would take it as a compliment.

[Anonymous]

Yes, yes, yes as long as I am attracted to him.

[CindiluvsFriends]

No,not really. I think it's sweet.