Questions: Girl's Behavior

i have gained 10 kilos

Long story short, I bought land with my own money and he land is under my name. However, my parents have invested some money with renovations. When the land was bought it was agreed that it would be my safe place away from all drama and negativity…I do not get along with my older siblings. In that land I have my farm animals that I love with all my heart. Time and time again my parents have taken random people to that land to show it off and those people have taken pictures and posted them online. Most recently, my brother’s wife posted pictures and videos. My brother’s wife does not like me at all…we’ve argued a lot in the past. I’ve had no contact with her or my brother for over 6 years and within that time she has talked negatively about me and my family on her social media. Which is why it bothered me that my parents would allow her in my property near my animals.

which has made me think if whether or not I should just sell my livestock. It makes me uncomfortable know that random people that don’t like me go into my property and take pictures of my belongings. I would rather the land be empty so there’s nothing there when my parents take random people there…what would they show off if all of the good stuff is gone.

anyways, what do y’all think? What would you do?

[Is there any difference between them? I don't know. This is what algorithms do...]

1. Why?

2. What would you say to her?