Which woman would you like to have coffee with?

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[Is there any difference between them? I don't know. This is what algorithms do...] 1. Why? 2. What would you say to her?

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

B.

1. Why? Because she is attractive to me. The others are also attractive, so it wasn't too easy, but in the end I think she is the most attractive, and also I considered a few other factors. To be honest, they all look like models, so perhaps it's too much to read into their style of dress, accoutrements, &c. But I decided to go ahead and play the game as if these were natural photos taken of non-modeling women. So I dismissed the ring finger ring-wearer, a sign of either married, wants to be married, or wants people to think she's married. I thought "F" to be quite cute as well, but I prefer thicker, darker hair. Option "C" read to me as more approachable, but excessive accoutrement + ring finger occupation. Body language? "B" is engaged, leaning in, plus it looks like she finished a cup so she's caffeinated and ready to talk. :)

2. What would I say? I would say hi, my name is (my name), what's your name? From there, I don't have any plan, I like to improvise. Just whatever comes to mind. I do prefer to have conversations about ideas vs. more mundane topics.

Which woman would you like to have coffee with?

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

I would. probabky go with A. Brunettes are my kryptonite, but I think the woman in picture A may come off as reserved, but has a level of grace with her once she is comfortable. She dressed nice too.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why are all these women white? Aren't there any attractive Black, Asian, Latina women?

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I'd have coffee with any of them, see no reason why not !

nolabels · Answer

They are all physically attractive, but I think that I'll pass on having coffee with any of them.

Without already having a connection of some kind, these women are all too young for me to comfortably sit down to have coffee with. Not prohibitively, of course. Who wouldn't like to be in the company of a lovely young lady for a short while? The possibility, though, of a connection between someone of my age and most young women is probably fairly remote.

That being said, a few years ago, I was in regular contact with a young woman over the course of several months in a professional setting. The nature of our meetings allowed us to have very deep conversations in which we connected on more than one level. I came to regard her as the daughter I never had, as a very caring and effective professional in her field, and I also had/have romantic feelings for her. She confessed similar feelings for me. Our professional time together eventually came to an end.

I'll never forget her.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Forgive me for saying this, but none.

Because they look like a copy-paste of one another with minor variations and I see them as somewhat bland, without any real personality.

Maybe the last one is a bit different, but she does not inspire me nonetheless.

I don't know what I could say to any of those women beyond basic courtesies, I don't usually engage at lenght with people that do not interest me. We would probably drink the coffee in silence - mine with grappa on the side - or better let's make it grappa without the coffee - then I would pay and then leave.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

The one that has the nicest personality I suppose. I wouldn't know how to guess that by looks. It could be none if they're all terrible people or maybe all of them if they're nice. We're just talking coffee not marrying anyone ha. I agree with whoever said they look like the same person. Maybe that's just coincidence though.

NathanDavis · Answer

D... because it seems to be outdoors

and that would mean more stimulation around... which, could make it much more interesting for me to notice some things, how much else she notices and what kind of stuff, sounds, visuals, aromas?

could notice about her focus, interest, direct and indirect interactions with others...

what would I say to her? well, that depends... I rather listen first, and then I would see about what to say to her

Lynx122 · Answer

E G and A would be the ones that I'd like the most :) I prefer a soft face with gentle curves like E, over B or C with sharper noses and more angular thinner faces. B and C seem colder and more selfish to me even though I don't know anything about them. I don't know why that is but that's just my type or preference or whatever you wanna call it. And the rest is just based on the general appeal of their faces to me. :)

Do my choices mean anything? :P

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Only coffee? Lol

My choice is A , D and G

A's eyes are lovely, those are the kind of eyes I'd love to look into before sleeping.
Her lips are the kind I'd like to kiss.
Her nose is the kind I'd like to pinch.

D also have amazing eyes and cheeks.

G is what many guys would call a dream.

I'd like any of them, provided they have your character 😉

AviatorTom · Answer

They are all cute brunettes, my favorite hair color. Brunette A would be my choice for coffee, her touching her hair is a sign that she's open to new things. She's also the only one without a coffee cup/mug, which means having coffee with her might be pretty interesting... maybe she prefers tea.

kellytheman · Answer

Well first off I don’t drink coffee. I did pick E because I loved her beautiful seductive eyes but I had time picking between E and F cause I like the F girl pose and look. I would try introduce myself and ask if they like another cup and give her compliments if I was feeling confident and charming that day.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

I chose female D. I've always been drawn to brunettes (my wife is a brunette) and I love the sweater. I don't drink coffee, so I might have to have a different drink at whatever locally owned coffee shop/bakery when we meet.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

They are all very attractive women. Going just by looks, it is hard to say. I go mostly by personality. "G" looks shy, yet approachable. I'd probably want to meet her just to see where she is coming from.

Ben487 · Answer

B is the most attractive but I choose E b/c of the way she is looking. That's an exciting look.

Losalt · Answer

Personally I find D and E the most attractive. I think it has something to do with a sense of mystery and depth? I also like that they're a lot less formal and feel more approachable.

richardcory · Answer

None. They all look like they spend too much time making themselves look pretty rather than doing interesting things. I'm sure none of them would be interested in me either.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I like A, D, and E. (I voted for D, though.)

ColHathi · Answer

D. It's hard to explain why, but she just looks cuter.

SnowedIn · Answer

I selected E. But maybe D. But, frankly, they all look overly dramatic or like they're about to Instagram their coffee. Might be a turn off.

Anpu23 · Answer

I picked "G" because her smile looks whimsical and it might be fun to just talk with her.

GreatBigCircles · Answer

None of them, they're all literally who. Though F, E and C are the hardest nos. Anyone who treats casual coffee like a photo shoot is a big no for me (I get the feeling these might be AI generated though)

RealMarek · Answer

G: She seems the happiest of the bunch, at least at that moment.

invalid1 · Answer

B. Because she's gorgeous. And I'll tell her that.

Surely · Answer

I would give them all a chance. Then decide after chatting with them.  As they say. You can’t judge a book by its cover!

Sanser · Answer

D, E, F I love deep looks, some men can think its intimidating, I just love it.

Lionman95 · Answer

I´d go for for either of them besides maybe b and c. I can´t really explain but all the others have something about them that attracts me but they don´t.

RastaMexican59 · Answer

Because she’s beautiful, I love the blonde hair she has including her eyebrows and her lips are very attractive

Mac-One · Answer

Just having coffee or even socializing with someone is possible without further interest or involvement.

Adaeva · Answer

If I was a guy, it wouldn't make any difference.

Lliam · Answer

'G' is the only one that doesn't look creepy or high maintenance.

Shark_61695 · Answer

Coffee? I don't touch the stuff... gimmie a good hot chocolate though and I'm happy enough on my own 😀

Hiroshi-Kun · Answer

B she looks very attractive and kind of my type. We would talk about different things I guess.

exitseven · Answer

I pick C. She probably would not be as obnoxious as the rest.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

C and its purely because I find her to be the most attractive.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I prefer to stay in my league, thank you

jamesgoldman · Answer

None, they don't appear to have any jewellery worthy of my time or coffee purchase for that matter

shades777 · Answer

none of them look like they would date me so, none of them

Abdulwahh · Answer

C nice features wed talk about whatever in the moment

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

The one with the best personality..

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

B and E remind me of echos from my past.

EaterPeter · Answer

@AmandaYVR

Greta_854 · Answer

I would with first😂

Fireguy17 · Answer

none of them, I don't drink coffee at all.

Likes2drive · Answer

All of the above, but I picked C

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

They all look like trans women to me

Adogdog · Answer

Girl A is more my type.

Venymal · Answer

D or G

Wise4myage · Answer

I like C.

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