Why am I nervous to shower at his place?

[Jackiedenna18]

I don't particularly know why it is that I am nervous I have no reason to be but I need some help lol

[Anonymous]

I already know the answer to this one, he does not keep his shower as clean as yours. My bathroom is like an operating room, the guy's is usually a bacteria frappe.

[Anonymous]

I would be nervous also…like what if he burst in while I was taking a shower and……I don’t even want to think about the rest.

[Jackiedenna18]

I don't think he would burst in I'm sure he would knock first lol

[Opinion Owner]

You can never trust anyone…who knows what he would do.

[Jackiedenna18]

Lol honey he's someone I am talking to not some random stranger

[Opinion Owner]

Okay.. so he’s not some random stranger…and you’re nervous? Okay what do you want us to tell you then? Shower at your place?

[Jackiedenna18]

I'm nervous because I don't know it is hard to explain but I think it has to do with being vulnerable

[SnowedIn]

Perhaps the intimacy of it? There's an element of vulnerability to it?

[Jackiedenna18]

I think that might be it I am terrified of being vulnerable

[SnowedIn]

Maybe... try it when he's not in the room connected to the bathroom?

Or try a shower at your gym?

[Jackiedenna18]

It would be my first time showering at his place

[SnowedIn]

I get that that might be nerve wracking. Perhaps tell yourself you're at a hotel?

[Wise4myage]

Did you just start dating this guy?

[Jackiedenna18]

We haven't made anything official but I did kick myself in the ass and took a shower lol

[Wise4myage]

lol. I think felt nervous because you aren't a couple yet.

[shades777]

probably because there's a ghost haunting it

[Jackiedenna18]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[dolemite58]

what exactly makes u nervous about it? 😂

[Jackiedenna18]

That is exactly it I don't know I guess the act of it

[dolemite58]

maybe u watch too many horror movies lol

[Jackiedenna18]

I don't think that's it lol

[dolemite58]

i’m all out of ideas then 🤷‍♂️😂