My husband of 2 years doesn’t want to shower together because of being nervous but said it felt right doing it with his ex before me what do I do?

[Anonymous]

Is there feeling there for his ex

Overthinking

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for your husband of two years I’m sure he has seen you naked & as for being nervous I couldn’t understand why he would be. On the flip side we all need a little space from time to time & as for his time in the shower maybe he is doing something else in there & that is why he is nervous. He’s probably humping his fist.

[SueShe]

You are overthinking the entire situation. Why is it so important to you to shower together with your husband? What does it change in your life whether you take a shower alone or with someone else?

Did you know that taking showers with someone else is not ecological because you use so much more water than if both of you showered individually?

There is no need to overthink the entire issue because it does not really mean anything.

[jahaims]

He shouldn't be married if he can't even feel comfortable in the shower by you

[D_Bone_Steak]

Sounds like you've been doing way more man-shaming than the ex. This is where that's gotten you.

[Anonymous]

He's lying about being nervous. He sounds unattractive TBH.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Nervous? Of what?