Questions: Girl's Behavior

So lately I haven't been looking that great. Holding onto weight from pregnancy, not putting effort into how I dress and not doing my hair. And for some reason I cannot stop getting hit on by men and also getting compliments from women. Its literally to the point that I'm scared to go out alone because men have been creeping on me so hard.

I'm thinking this is happening because I look more average and non threating then I did before when I was better looking.

Is this a common thing that average women get hit on more then pretty women?

I confronted a friend of over 5 years for constantly body shaming me and I mildly suggested that if they feel to need to body shame me every time they meet me they should really talk to a therapist or someone professional. Me making this suggestion triggered them and they started saying mean things about how I was insecure and wanted to feel superior instead of apologising and it escalated to a whole fight about how I never cared enough to ask them about how they were doing and they removed me unfollowed me everywhere. It feels a bit painful but based on this, try to patch things up or just let it go?