Polls: Girl's Behavior

What I want to know is how to stop hating bubbly happy girls. Because not being able to stand them makes me want to become violent and punch them when they start acting out; I can't be committing assault against girls in the mall because they are talking incessantly about a highly controversial Facebook posting to some random wall which is ambiguous and ultimately retarded to boot.

So, help me, how do I embrace the happy-go-lucky always-on-cloud-99 female in society since they are so common that eradication equates losing half the female population?

A lot a girls go out with guys that are loud and obnoxious almost ape like manners that have outrages styles hippie emo, punk, gangster, with ripped jeans, saggy jeans, skinny jeans, loose shirts, tight shirts, sleeveless shirts, half shirts wearing baseball caps indoor or just casual well let me tell you FRIEND your suppose to take off your hat indoors it's very rude and its supposed to be worn at sporting events like baseball FRIEND,Hippie let me present to you a pair of scissors a comb and a razor, Punk/emo Stop you freakos weird the hell out of me,"GANGster" we ain't in the 90's yo you strate trippin if ya think we are dog man brah, Also you long hair fabios you look like girls from behind most likely you don't want to but your wrong wrong ways won't let you cut your hair please do it'll count as a public service.

But never mind that the point is that that is not the way a man dresses or looks A man has etiquette a man has class and a man is well groomed a man is a man not an experiment. Don't let a WOMAN tell you that don't be whipped. When a woman needs help choosing an outfit she presents you options and you pick one then she selects the correct option if she's in a good mood she might go along with your option(the incorrect option).

Back to the question conservative well mannered guys have confidence posture ambition sensitivity and adaptability we are in control of ourselves and our situations we eat healthy and exercise properly we rather wear suits because we believe in only under-dressing we may seem snobby but it's only because you all have inadequate upbringings and poor etiquette.Its sad to see these girls date buffoons when they starve for something higher like us brethren.

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I've noticed that girls don't cut off lose ends. I was just going out with this girl for a couple weeks and we had a great time, and after the 2nd date I drove her home and she was smiling really big and said, "Call me Monday, OK?" and walked back to the house and waved at me as I drove away. Monday came around and I called. She didn't answer, so I left a message. No call back or text message. Three days later I sent an email so it would be non-threatening and I said, "Just out of curiosity, did something bad happen between us? I thought things were going great, and then silence." I had a confirmation receipt on it so I know she read it. No response.

Last month I started dating this girl off a dating site. After two dates I wasn't really into it, so I sent a text and said, "I don't really think we're hitting it off, but I wish you the best and I think you're a quality person. I'm sure you'll find someone who's right for you." and she said, "OK, I appreciate the honesty, good luck to you too."

Girls NEVER send me messages like the one I sent that girl. Guys I know (besides me) usually send those kind of messages when they're done with a girl. WTF?

I totally expect this to be one of those really long posts that get no answers, but I think that I just need to vent.

There is this girl that I've been dating for several months (a year and a half actually), and she's not really the type of girl that I usually go for. But I really like her and it's so confusing.She is so wonderful, but there are things that worry me, and I don't know if I'm just being a d*** or what.

The main thing is her lack of confidence, she never thinks that she is good enough for me. She is always downing herself , and I don't know how to help... I've tried to alot! And I don't know how to help her to develop into the kind of person that she wants to be, I;m afraid of giving her more of a complex...

Which brings me to my next point, and the point where I start to feel like a d***... She is super insecure about her looks. I've always been attracted to and dated girls that are extremely femine and know how to do their hair and makeup and have a really rocking sense of style. Well, she doesn't know how to do her hair , she only wares eye makeup and she doesn't apply that well( always caked on and not natural looking), and as far as fashion goes I'm at a total loss... I don't even know how to help her get it... And I don't understand why she doesn't because she is artistically inclined... I try to help her and she says that she tries really hard, but to me it doesn't look like it because her efforts are so minimal, I think that she is afraid to try. The sad thing is I think that with a little work she could easily be an 8 or a 9, possibly a ten. She has an amazing body, she works out all the time and has really sexy girl abs and a nice shape. I just don't know how to help her with out sounding like a d***... And it's getting kind of... embarrassing ( see I said that I'm a d*** =[ )... And also I always see other girls that I'm attracted to that have all of these things going on...

Another thing that worries me is I don't seem to have chemistry with her. I really really like her and enjoy being with her, but there very rarely is that spark. She doesn't flirt in a way that gets me going, and her body language is always so subdued and un-attractive. She is really smart, but she's to afraid to put her opinions out there because she's afraid of ridicule.

I don't want to hurt her more or give her a complex by telling her these things, but I don't want to lead her on if we are not right for each other either. I'm so confused because I'm really attracted to how sweet she is and to a lot of aspects about her... But I don't know if she's right for me... or if I'm right for her... I'm so afriad I'll be more harmful then helpful...

So what do you think, is she just not my type, or am I just being a d***. Also should I try to help her change (she's not happy with ho she is) , or should I tell her she's fine and try to except her how she is... I'm really confused, I'm gonna add a poll too, because people are more likely to vote.

I have seen many girls talk about liking shy guys and quite men but would you marry a man who had no vocal speech at all. what kind of love story would that make. for this occasion he is ideal in every other way: caring, hard working, strong but tender, and handsome and well enough off in money to take care of you and possible future rug-rats.

Cons:

he would never tell you he loved you,

never sing you a song with his own voice,

never tell you his stories

and you would not ever hear him laugh.

Pros: know that he would show his love.

ether way, explanations would be great and if you think of some more cons or pros please give them for up dates.

I've always heard that "behind every good man, is a great woman."

Well, I've only personally seen that the women I end up with are only great when I push them. It's like they wait on me to unlock their potential.

Now, I do see some great results with them, but where are these women who push men to be at their best. Of do I have this all wrong and it doesn't work that way.

p.s. I can motivate myself, I would just like a supplement every once in a while, that's all:)

Do girls like callused hands or soft hands?

Note: both are smooth (not dry) but the callused hands are harder from lifting and work, and the soft ones are not as hard.

Also pick the one corresponding to your age.

I'm an artist and I work with nude models in my studio on a regular basis. In 25 years of doing this, there's never been any unprofessional interaction between me and a model. It's always been my belief that they are there out of an interest in art, not anything else, and I make a point of giving the respect I would any co-worker.

My wife's (female) cousin says that "if that's true" (it is), it's only because I've never tested the waters. She claims that it's not possible that these models are not turned on and interested in me while they're posing nude. I pointed out that, besides the fact that I'm not anything great to look at, I'm 45 and most (not all) of the models I work with are between 18 and 25, so it's pretty ridiculous to think they'd be attracted to me. She says that doesn't matter because girls think artists are sensitive and romantic and the fact that I'm a successful artist will erase any age gap or lack of physical attraction and make most girls hormones start to rage.

I don't have any intention of changing my behavior in the studio, but I'm curious whether she's right or I'm right. What do you think?

I feel like the guys always have to lower their standards to the girl.

I am an attractive 25 year old. 6 foot 2 and Hispanic. I can dance, am a professional musician and a Doctoral Student. I have plenty of confidence and girls always tell me that I am very funny.

So, this is basically how it goes for me. I get numbers from beautiful woman, they like me..and eventually it goes nowhere. So lets say for numbers sake that I am an 8. When I use 1-10 I am speaking only of attractiveness. This is all that girls/boys get at first glance when they make first judgement. I hit on 9s and they really like me, and it goes nowhere. I hit on 8s, and they really-really like me and it slowly fizzles into nothing. I hit on 7s and they are in love with me..but guess what...it goes nowhere eventually. Then I hit on 6s. They stalk me, are in love with me, and push themselves on me the minute I give them any attention. It will eventually end up that I am with one of the 6s. I treat the 6s and the 9s all the same way. I am a pleasant guy to be around. Guys like hanging with me, and girls love hanging with me. GIrls also REALLY LOVE making love to me.

So why must I ALWAYS BE THE ONE WHO LOWERS MY STANDARDS?

Why do the pretty girls never lower their standards for the guy? It seems that girls only want someone they KNOW THEY ARE REALLY F-ING LUCKY TO HAVE A CHANCE WITH. Anyone else who is at their level...they blow off.

SOMETIME girls lower their standards for a boy, this does happen...dont get me wrong. But I feel that MOST OF THE TIME the guys have to lower their standards to get a decent girl.

A beautiful ex girlfriend billboard model of mine once said., " A beautiful person cannot get with another beautiful person. Only one person can bet he hot one in a relationship"

Is that true?

Does someone have to lower their standards? If so, does it HAVE TO BE THE GUY?

I will add a poll but PLEASE weigh in and comment!

Not her to bash women all day long. But this is something I often think about.

If women are naturally temperamental at times then there is nothing we can really do about it. However makes me really get angry at the feminist movement and "equal opportunity" bullsh*t because men are naturally better leaders, decision makers, etc.

If it's option number 2, then our politically correct society really needs to be corrected. Women can enjoy the same opportunities as men, but also should be REPRIMANDED and held responsible just like men for not behaving like a rational person at times (which they rarely punished for) .

Of course I'm making some very politically incorrect statements. But this is just my thoughts.